{"id":1083,"date":"2010-03-15T09:31:05","date_gmt":"2010-03-15T16:31:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1083"},"modified":"2025-11-04T11:14:44","modified_gmt":"2025-11-04T18:14:44","slug":"child-labor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1083","title":{"rendered":"Child Labor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>Saturday was a lovely morning of watching my kids (12, 10 &amp; 8 &#8211; all boys) clean my house.\u00a0 How did I get them to do THAT you may ask.. well, if you&#8217;ve read the blog from the beginning you&#8217;ve tracked my philosophy.\u00a0 Or you can click here to catch up.<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=239\">Kids and Money &#8211; The How<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>When the first kid asked if they could play the GameCube I told him yes, AFTER all the chores were done.\u00a0 I then made a list of the chores to be done before any of them could play electronics.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 This is the list:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>Put away the washed apples, Load the Dishwasher, Hand wash all cookie sheets &amp; wood blocks (we&#8217;d had pizza so there were 3 of them), Pick up all the toys off the bedroom floor prior to vacuuming, Vacuum Upstairs &amp; Downstairs (hardwood floors so not TOO hard), Sweep the Steps, Mop upstairs &amp; Downstairs (Wet Swiffer &#8211; again not too hard), Mop the Steps, Clean both toilets, Wash both bathroom sinks, Refill the Liquid Hand Soap Containers, and &#8211; here was the kicker &#8211; Scrub the Inside of the Microwave. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>Working together they could have gotten this all done in 30 minutes.\u00a0 But it did turn into a bit of play and distraction and yelling to get themselves back on track so in all it took them 2 hours.\u00a0 But they did it and did it without whining or complaining. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>Because I&#8217;ve done this before.. withheld their currency, i.e. electronics, until the chores are done.\u00a0 So not only do they know I&#8217;m serious, they know when they work together and Just Do It (go Nike!) its done and they have the rest of the day to play. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>And when they finished I looked over what they did and spot cleaned where the job was pretty bad.\u00a0 Evan did a surprisingly good job on the microwave considering he&#8217;d never cleaned it before and it was a good 4 months filthy.\u00a0 He completely didn&#8217;t see the top of the inside and ignored the outside, but I only had to do what he missed because he did such a good job. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>So I got to spend my morning watching t.v., working online and on a heating pad for my back while my kids cleaned my house.\u00a0 Its not as good as a paid maid might do (or myself for that matter) but its good enough for this week.\u00a0\u00a0 So, Victory! My plan is working!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong><em>(Oh and the oldest decided to cook pancakes for breakfast, which I accidentally added my Vanilla Carmel CoffeeMate Creamer to because the bowl was next to my coffee cup and I hadn&#8217;t had any coffee [OBVIOUSLY!!] and didn&#8217;t know what I was doing so the\u00a0 pancakes tasted extra delicious, and he did it without any help from me [well except for the whole creamer interference] and it was great NOT having to cook!)<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>So the oldest are getting the chores down really nicely.\u00a0\u00a0 Nice enough that I can now start making them do not only MORE chores, but start making them do the chores to a better standard of clean. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong>They call me &#8220;evil mom&#8221; and I smile and think &#8220;What can I get them to do now?&#8221;\u00a0\u00a0 Hmmmm&#8230;\u00a0 Filing!!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Saturday was a lovely morning of watching my kids (12, 10 &amp; 8 &#8211; all boys) clean my house.\u00a0 How did I get them to do THAT you may ask.. well, if you&#8217;ve read the blog from the beginning you&#8217;ve &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1083\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1083","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-narcissist-secrets"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1083","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1083"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1083\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3329,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1083\/revisions\/3329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1083"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1083"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1083"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}