{"id":1531,"date":"2010-08-21T08:58:08","date_gmt":"2010-08-21T15:58:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1531"},"modified":"2025-11-03T09:45:11","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T16:45:11","slug":"its-a-bit-like-when-i-tried-sushi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1531","title":{"rendered":"It’s a bit like when I tried Sushi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Anal Sex.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yup.. that’s today’s subject.\u00a0 I’ve been meaning to write this for weeks.\u00a0 And if the thought of that makes you cringe.. skip this post.\u00a0 Because I’ve been exploring LOTS of things about my sexuality and, as usual, I’ve learned a lot that I just MUST share!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Decades ago (literally… sheesh I”m old.) I was coerced by a date to try sushi.\u00a0 Back then it was new and trendy and I’ve never been a trendy kind of girl.\u00a0 But I have been a person to try new things.\u00a0 So I went on this date and tried sushi for the first time.\u00a0 I came away from the dinner saying, “Well, that was interesting but I doubt I’ll ever WANT it.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Three weeks later I found myself craving sushi… really craving it.\u00a0 I realize now that its the seaweed and the soy sauce salt content combined with the fish protein and that perfect side dish, rice.\u00a0\u00a0 Which is why I don’t crave nor enjoy sushimi much.\u00a0 The point being that sometimes you can’t judge an experience by that first attempt or taste.\u00a0 Sometimes your body might surprise you if you give it another chance.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And so it went with me and anal sex.\u00a0 The very first attempt at this was (again) decades ago.\u00a0 And I couldn’t get enough pleasure to get past the pain.\u00a0 So we stopped and I pronounced that anal sex wasn’t for me.\u00a0 Almost 20 years later my mind and my body are in a different state.\u00a0 One night I’m enjoying a roll playing experience with a man who introduces me to an anal toy.\u00a0 At first I was skeptical but willing since he’s everything he’d done so far was very fun.\u00a0 And it wasn’t bad, even\u00a0 fun.\u00a0 But it was more of an added experience not as the main course.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Yet a week later my body wanted to experience it as the main course.\u00a0 The sensations were unique and I kept remembering them.\u00a0 Just like the sushi.\u00a0 So it wasn’t long before I was trying anal sex.\u00a0 And not long after that when I began to crave it.\u00a0 Because its an intensely wonderful experience.
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Ahh.. but there are a few things I learned about anal sex that might help those who are new or who want to introduce it to their partners. <\/strong><\/p>\n

One.. anal sex is one of the few instances where size matters!\u00a0 Not to be gross, but look at the size of your average shit.\u00a0 It’s about the width of your average erection.. so you know your body can take that size.\u00a0\u00a0 Yes, you probably can take larger, but don’t START your anal sex experience with a thick cock!\u00a0 WHAT have I told you about setting the bar too high!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Two… the best lube is your natural lube, especially when he’s wearing a condom.\u00a0 And unless you’re in a committed relationship, he’s always wearing a condom.\u00a0 (Although I did try it without once.. omg… THAT rocked!) In any case, sometimes adding lube is going to give you a bit of the runs the day after.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Three… BE IN CHARGE of it.\u00a0 Anal sex works best if the recipient leads.\u00a0\u00a0 Most people do anal sex in some form of doggy style, so I find backing my body onto him is the best way to start the process.\u00a0 It allows me to go at a speed that keeps that initial pain\/pleasure opening process at a level I’m happy with. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Four… most of the pleasure nerves seem to be near the opening and are direction sensitive.\u00a0 Long strokes in and out may be counterproductive and not necessary for her to reach orgasm.\u00a0 Shorter strokes may work much better.\u00a0 Because the out-stroke sometimes induces the need to stop.
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Five.. how do you know you’ll enjoy this?\u00a0 If you’ve ever taken a shit and felt just that hint of pleasure doing it, you’ll probably enjoy anal sex.\u00a0 And if you’re a guy.. hello… prostate gland!\u00a0 There are wonderful prostate toys for men to enjoy while fucking their ladies.\u00a0 And the pleasure is truly unique.\u00a0 Just like a clitoral orgasm feels different than a vaginal one, so its the same with an anal orgasm.\u00a0 And yes.. my ass cums.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So to sum up…\u00a0 Anal Sex is Like Pot…\u00a0 you may not enjoy it the first few times you try it but don’t think it won’t work for you by the 3rd or 4th try!\u00a0 And yes, its a Gateway Vice… I’m so ready for my Dominatrix Outfit!
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