{"id":1626,"date":"2010-10-01T09:25:54","date_gmt":"2010-10-01T16:25:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1626"},"modified":"2025-11-02T21:48:08","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T04:48:08","slug":"gotta-set-limits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1626","title":{"rendered":"Gotta set Limits"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Those who know me and read the title of this blog are saying, &#8220;WHAT!\u00a0 YOU!\u00a0 Setting Limits!&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ha!\u00a0 Just when everyone thought I had absolutely NO boundaries, I&#8217;m drawing one. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I refuse to Twitter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;ve actually managed to hit my limit on my need for attention.\u00a0 (Yes, my friends, you can pick up your jaw or stop laughing in derision.) But its solely based on a time issue and perhaps a little personal fulfillment on the adoration need I tend to crave. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Cuz, let&#8217;s look at what I&#8217;m managed to sucker myself into updating daily.\u00a0 Well, this blog, of course.\u00a0 When I first started it, I posted every day, because I had sooooo much to say and no one to say it to!\u00a0 Now its down to Monday, Wednesday &amp; Friday, THANK GOD! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Then I began to date (almost a year ago!\u00a0 Wow!) and chatting on Messenger had a &#8220;what are you doing section&#8221; that I would change every day, not so much now, since when I get on Messenger I end up chatting with sometimes up to 4 people at the same time!\u00a0 (Lucky for me I type 120 wpm!)<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Dating alone fulfilled a lot of my needs for attention, because I was just so damn successful at it!\u00a0 hahahaha.\u00a0 (But really, its because I&#8217;m an honest, caring, unique, insightful sex-goddess and lets face it.. we are rare!)<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Then I was strong-armed onto Facebook and had to come up with short versions of my extensive wit, which is very, very hard to do!\u00a0 I&#8217;m naturally long winded!\u00a0 PLUS I love leaving fun little comments on other people&#8217;s posts.\u00a0 Or better yet, annoying or amusing comments on their game notifications!\u00a0 That one&#8217;s really, really fun!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Then updating the work Facebook page became my job.\u00a0 Oh fun.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>So every day I check my blog, 2 personal emails, 5 emails for work and 2 FB pages.\u00a0 I refuse, absolutely draw the line, at Tweeting.\u00a0 I will NOT get sucked into one more Work Avoidance Social Media device.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It cuts way too much into my t.v. time.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Those who know me and read the title of this blog are saying, &#8220;WHAT!\u00a0 YOU!\u00a0 Setting Limits!&#8221; Ha!\u00a0 Just when everyone thought I had absolutely NO boundaries, I&#8217;m drawing one. I refuse to Twitter. I&#8217;ve actually managed to hit my &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1626\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1626","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-twirling-my-skirt"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1626","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1626"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1626\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1646,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1626\/revisions\/1646"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1626"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1626"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1626"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}