{"id":1886,"date":"2011-02-18T10:00:05","date_gmt":"2011-02-18T17:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1886"},"modified":"2025-11-02T21:15:59","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T04:15:59","slug":"stopping-premature-ejaculation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=1886","title":{"rendered":"Stopping Premature Ejaculation"},"content":{"rendered":"

There have been a few instances in bed with a man where is ability or even his inability to ejaculate has become an issue.\u00a0 There are the few men who take a long time to ejaculate and some even who have difficulty managing it at all.\u00a0 This used to concern me, A LOT, when I felt they didn’t find me arousing enough to cum.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

But what many women don’t realize is, its not about the ejaculation for men.\u00a0 Its about ALL the sensations they get during sex, not just the end one.\u00a0 For some men the pleasure of the act and your pleasure is enough.\u00a0\u00a0 If it was all about cuming then a porn would be 5 minutes of sex and 10 minutes of the ejaculation scene!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ah, but what to do about the man who cums on the quick side.\u00a0 When I was young, my solution to this was to cum myself as quickly as possible to get at least ONE orgasm in “just in case”!\u00a0 Because you never knew what you were going to get that first time and after all the energy spent on this guy I’d like at least ONE orgasm! <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

That training has served me well, as now I cum practically on entry!\u00a0 So you can imagine how many orgasms I tend to enjoy throughout intercourse.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude42\u00a0\u00a0 And can do it almost on command.\u00a0 (Sorry… was I boasting!\u00a0 Muahaaha)
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Anyway, I was discussing this with my lovely Latina BBW Carmen and in her usual “mother earth” way she told me she had a technique that a man can do to “train” himself NOT to ejaculate so quickly.\u00a0 So, of course, I dragged out as much info from her as I could on the subject!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

And surprise, surprise… it involves self exploration on the part of the male.\u00a0 Apparently, if a man explores himself in the area of his anus, prostate and the area between his anus and his balls, while masturbating he can better feel when he’s going to cum and mentally practice backing it down to last longer.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

According to Carmen, the best position to do this in is on your back with your legs in the air and up against a wall.\u00a0 So you have full access. \ud83d\ude42
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Now exploring your ass doesn’t make you a homosexual male.\u00a0 It makes you self exploratory.\u00a0\u00a0 Remember according to the religious that condemns sex, God made us in his image.\u00a0 Which means wherever we find pleasure.. he meant us to find pleasure.\u00a0 Some men enjoy ass play and some men are uncomfortable with it.\u00a0 I think its a measure of how much you like yourself, ALL of yourself and how self-experimental you are.
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But I’ll tell you this.\u00a0 I have noticed amongst the many men I’m met, the ones who are self-aware AND self-experimental are the men who last the longest in bed.
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There\\’s always THIS technique!<\/a>
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