{"id":2172,"date":"2011-05-12T09:12:19","date_gmt":"2011-05-12T16:12:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=2172"},"modified":"2025-11-02T21:03:07","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T04:03:07","slug":"snap-judgments-on-facebook-ooo-i-better-check-my-spelling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=2172","title":{"rendered":"Snap Judgments on Facebook&#8230;  Ooo I better check my spelling!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>So I&#8217;m enjoying reading the posts of my friends on FB and I leave a cute little comment here and there.\u00a0 Mostly my opinion, sometimes naughty, but always meant to be funny.\u00a0 And I comment on a friend&#8217;s posting where she says that all the college students around her are driving her nuts with their stress over finals so she&#8217;s going to get them back by interrupting them.\u00a0 The first couple of comments are humorous and I add mine.. See below. \u00a0 Its not an insulting comment.\u00a0 It&#8217;s an opinion. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>But apparently it was enough for one girl to go to my FB page.. find my blog page&#8230; and read&#8230; I guess no farther than the tag line, before she goes back to FB and slams an insult at me.\u00a0 When I read it I was pretty sure her insult was aimed at me, even though she didn&#8217;t say that, but I actually had to DIG to figure out what the hell she was talking about. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>And I&#8217;m looking at her comment trying to decide if I want to reply and what I&#8217;d say should I choose to do so.\u00a0\u00a0 After all, I&#8217;m NOT an unintelligent woman.\u00a0 Yet, nor am I one to waste time trying to defend something as minor as spelling errors to those with OCD in THIS day and age of texting- word- shortening!\u00a0\u00a0 But I don&#8217;t like the feeling of another person assuming I&#8217;m cowering in hurt feelings by her nasty slash at me. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong>Amusingly&#8230;. a White Night or two came to my defense.<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\">Heather<\/span> Baffles the hell out of me why anyone would voluntarily go back to school!  But I watch friends do it all the time.. crazy.<abbr title=\"Saturday, May 7, 2011 at 9:35pm\"> about an hour ago<\/abbr> \u00b7 <button title=\"Like this comment\">LikeUnlike<\/button><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/imsezah\">June <\/a>Going  back to school is this thing called &#8220;bettering yourself.&#8221; Commonly  associated with gaining knowledge, mastering of skills, and personal  growth through a variety of experiences. It also teaches things like the  proper use of &#8220;its&#8221; and &#8220;it&#8217;s&#8221; in your blog subhead. JFYI\u00a0 <abbr title=\"Saturday, May 7, 2011 at 9:50pm\">59 minutes ago<\/abbr> \u00b7 <button title=\"Like this comment\">LikeUnlike<\/button><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/imsezah\">June <\/a>Also,  don&#8217;t blame the homework-riddled. They have enough to deal with. (On a  bright note, it pays off: Adam is now officially a PhD candidate, and  thus is getting the fuck out of Buffalo!)\u00a0 <abbr title=\"Saturday, May 7, 2011 at 9:52pm\">57 minutes ago<\/abbr> \u00b7 <button title=\"Like this comment\">LikeUnlike<\/button><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/profile.php?id=557186171\">Chris <\/a> Wow that was mean.<abbr title=\"Saturday, May 7, 2011 at 9:53pm\"> 56 minutes ago<\/abbr> \u00b7 <button title=\"Like this comment\">LikeUnlike<\/button> \u00b7  <a rel=\"dialog\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/browse\/?type=likes&amp;id=10150173531682061\">1 person likes this.<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/imsezah\">June<\/a> No, it was educated. People in Buffalo seem to confuse the two.<abbr title=\"Saturday, May 7, 2011 at 9:54pm\"> 55 minutes ago<\/abbr> \u00b7 <button title=\"Like this comment\">LikeUnlike<\/button><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/eric.haaland\">Eric <\/a> Being mean and educated?  Did you attend catholic school by chance?\u00a0 <abbr title=\"Saturday, May 7, 2011 at 9:57pm\">53 minutes ago<\/abbr> \u00b7 <button title=\"Like this comment\">LikeUnlike<\/button><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/profile.php?id=100000443026995\">Heather <\/a> Thank you June.. this 48 year old has been &#8220;schooled by the educated&#8221;  I feel so bettered.<abbr title=\"Saturday, May 7, 2011 at 9:58pm\"> 52 minutes ago<\/abbr> \u00b7 <button title=\"Like this comment\">LikeUnlike<\/button><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/profile.php?id=557186171\">Chris<\/a> Excuse  me for not bowing down before your greatness.  I know it takes a lot of  chutzpah to attack others&#8217; use of grammar on the web.  I&#8217;m from  Buffalo, so why don&#8217;t you check out my blog and leave a nasty note  pontificating about my lack of skills as well?<abbr title=\"Saturday, May 7, 2011 at 10:00pm\">50 minutes ago<\/abbr> \u00b7 <button title=\"Unlike this comment\">UnlikeLike<\/button> \u00b7  <a rel=\"dialog\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/browse\/?type=likes&amp;id=10150173534247061\">1 person Liked this<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/imsezah\">June Hatfield<\/a> nah<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">Needless to say I have a NEW friend on Facebook!\u00a0 I look forward to reading Chris&#8217;s blog.\u00a0 Always got to support a fellow blogger.\u00a0 Especially when he writes such interesting erotica!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">THEN the next day the original poster of the thread commented with June&#8217;s two blogs directly for Chris and me to &#8220;read and comment&#8221;.\u00a0 Chris &#8220;declined to stoop to that level&#8221;\u00a0 but I wrote that I &#8220;stooped and snooped and found a delicious spelling error.&#8221;\u00a0 Muahahaha.\u00a0 I did NOT post the error, nor comment on her blog OF her error as I didn&#8217;t feel the need to be mean. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">But then she ASKED in the FB thread for the error and I happily pointed out that she spelled the name wrong of the musician she&#8217;s very taken with (I was less than impressed, but apparently June is a &#8220;hipster&#8221;.. we used to call them &#8220;beatniks&#8221; lol) in one of her blog postings.\u00a0 And I can barely call them blog postings.\u00a0 They are her musical opinions that she posts as one of several people posting on a joint blog.\u00a0 And the other seems to be mostly recipes, videos, pictures.\u00a0 There is\u00a0 very little written posts like mine. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">I kinda expected more from someone anal enough to criticize my spelling!\u00a0 Haha!<br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I&#8217;m enjoying reading the posts of my friends on FB and I leave a cute little comment here and there.\u00a0 Mostly my opinion, sometimes naughty, but always meant to be funny.\u00a0 And I comment on a friend&#8217;s posting where &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=2172\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-just-ramblings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2172","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2172"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2172\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2201,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2172\/revisions\/2201"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2172"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2172"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2172"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}