{"id":275,"date":"2009-07-07T08:45:10","date_gmt":"2009-07-07T15:45:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=275"},"modified":"2025-11-08T09:51:17","modified_gmt":"2025-11-08T16:51:17","slug":"the-older-womans-table","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=275","title":{"rendered":"The Older Woman’s Table"},"content":{"rendered":"

My first novel is about a Cougar and I\u2019ve observed several things as I write it while I upgrade myself and my life.\u00a0 Of course one of the most interesting things I observed is this \u2018thing\u2019 between Urban Cougars and the Cubs they date.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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And I wonder\u2026what do these women bring to the table?\u00a0 So I looked around at the young women and made observations about the differences between them and us.\u00a0 A lot of Cougars are just as hot and some are just as pretty as any twenty or thirty something.\u00a0 Most make just as much money, if not more, than any professional woman much younger.\u00a0 So what does the Cougar bring to the table that entices the cub away from his own age group?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Well, first and foremost I think it\u2019s the sex.\u00a0 Yes, we all know that a Cougar knows what she wants and has no problem passing that information onto her partner.\u00a0\u00a0But many modern women today do that, although truthfully probably not all.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 But remember most Cougars have entered their sexual prime.\u00a0 Imagine how much sex the average 18 year old male thinks about and all the surging testosterone.\u00a0 Now put that into the woman in her 40\u2019s and you have a classic Cougar, constantly hot and ready for it.\u00a0\u00a0 (Or is that just me?!?)\u00a0\u00a0 Lucky for us men are sluts and happy to help out or we’d be as bad off as they were at 18!\u00a0 Maybe since they’ve been thru it they’re more sympathetic!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Yet back to the point.\u00a0 It’s not just the sex, it’s what the older woman doesn\u2019t do that I think the cubs find appealing.\u00a0 She doesn\u2019t really give a shit about your job, the car you drive, where you\u2019re going with your life or most importantly\u2026if you\u2019re Mr. Right.\u00a0 She\u2019 only interested in whether your body is enticing and you\u2019re nice on the eyes.\u00a0 She wants to know can you last long enough to sate this overwhelming craving she has to bed you, over and over again.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

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So she\u2019s not looking at you wondering if you might be the love of her life (like the young ladies probably are).\u00a0 She wants to know are you worth the effort of a test drive?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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And the Cougar doesn\u2019t walk around with that untouchable air younger women use to warn off men.\u00a0 You know the look, the “I’m out of your league” walk, stance or attitude.\u00a0 Some young women do it because they might not want to be bothered, others because they want you to try and \u2018win\u2019 them.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

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The Cougar\u2019s attitude is \u201cLook, admire, come on over and flirt all you want\u2026I may be very interested, especially if you\u2019ve caught me eyeing you.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

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And if you want wild, without strings\u2026a Cougar is the way to go.\u00a0 Especially if it\u2019s been a while for her and all those excessive hormones are building up.\u00a0 We\u2019re sensualists and selfish enough to demand what we want and seasoning has made us bold enough to go after it.\u00a0\u00a0I think that\u2019s one of the reasons we don\u2019t date men our age.\u00a0 We really don\u2019t think they can last.\u00a0 <\/strong><\/p>\n

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Although I heard a comic say this:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Hey, I can go all night too, I\u2019ve worn a condom before!\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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Ladies you can find a guy who can go all night for you but remember the hassle afterward.\u00a0 You gotta get up early and drive him to school!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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No worries for me… I\u2019m up at 5 am!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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