{"id":3105,"date":"2012-02-10T11:04:06","date_gmt":"2012-02-10T18:04:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3105"},"modified":"2025-11-02T17:38:33","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T00:38:33","slug":"interesting-weekend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3105","title":{"rendered":"Interesting weekend"},"content":{"rendered":"

Last weekend I got to spend 24 hours with Sex God in his home.\u00a0\u00a0 Ok… in his tiny efficiency apartment with his 3 free flying birds, two of which are a mated pair of cocketiels who’ve laid eggs (7 now!) that seem fertile.<\/p>\n

I know that may sound horrible, but it wasn’t.\u00a0 Cuz I got to spend it alone with my lovely, lovely Sex God.\u00a0\u00a0 As of today, we have been fucking for 2 years.\u00a0\u00a0 And enjoying the gradual explorations of all our hedonstic desires.\u00a0 We are incredibly compatible in bed and out.<\/p>\n

People have asked what IS it that he does that makes him my Sex God.\u00a0 Well, its a lot of little things.. but two of them stand out.\u00a0 One… the way he moans, grunts & gasps his pleasure when I do things to him.\u00a0 Drives my passion up incredibly.\u00a0 Two…\u00a0 most of the time when he’s fucking me its for my pleasure.\u00a0 He’s loving every stroke, of course, but his focus is on pleasing me.\u00a0 Now MOST of my lovers do this and its why they are my lovers! haha.\u00a0 But what my Sex God does differently is the 10 minutes of fucking me he does at the end.\u00a0 Where its about HIS pleasure.\u00a0 Where his focus is inward.\u00a0 I get off on that level of pleasure.\u00a0 Cuz it takes a bit to get him to cum.<\/p>\n

And\u00a0 outside the bedroom, our relationship is halfway between FWB & BF\/GF… or maybe it just transcends the two onto a new plane.\u00a0\u00a0 Each fulfills the deep emotional connection a person needs from a “significant other” without the drama of “where are we going” expectations.\u00a0 Its just an enjoyment of our company.<\/p>\n

I gotta tell you its flat out relaxing not to obsess about “the relationship” and whether my needs are being met in it.\u00a0 Cuz its open on both our ends.\u00a0 He’s free to get what I can’t give him elsewhere, as am I.\u00a0 And we both do.\u00a0 We do not hold each other to a level of perfection similar to… “If you love me, you’ll make sure I’m always happy.”\u00a0 Or the “You’re focus should be primarily about me” illusion of many relationship expectations.<\/p>\n

Which is why it feels more akin to a friendship than BF\/GF.\u00a0\u00a0 We are each others refuge from the stresses of the week on a more intimate level than your average friendship.\u00a0 He understands me and I understand him.\u00a0 Together its the freedom to be ourselves without judgment.<\/p>\n

And to try new things \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

See, I went toy shopping with my Hottie the other day and got a Strapless Strapon to try on my Sex God.. who has discovered the fun of his prostrate, lol.\u00a0 And a few different vibrators for me.\u00a0 Then I went outfit shopping with my Sex God and after trying on MILLIONS!<\/del>\u00a0 8 outfits, went home with two I liked.\u00a0 And we had fun.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>I put a small vibe in his ass.\u00a0 He put the vaginal end of the strapless strapon in MY ass.\u00a0 I put a vibe on my clit which also vibed his balls as he fucked me.\u00a0 And we went to town!\u00a0 Sex God didn’t last long before he came because as he said….<\/p>\n

“I’ve got 3 different frequencies hitting me!”<\/p>\n

Needless to say we’re taking ALL our toys with us on our Anniversary\/Valentines Day\/work trip to Wash DC this weekend.\u00a0 I’m expecting to get my baggage searched… cuz the strapless strapon when you flip it over kinda looks like a gun!<\/p>\n

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