{"id":3340,"date":"2012-02-21T10:01:32","date_gmt":"2012-02-21T17:01:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3340"},"modified":"2025-11-02T17:37:57","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T00:37:57","slug":"the-joys-of-puberty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3340","title":{"rendered":"The joys of puberty"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>God I love my kids.\u00a0 They are endless sources of love and, more obviously, of amusement!<\/p>\n<p>First day of school after a long weekend and its no surprise they slept late.\u00a0 Rushing them through a quick breakfast and out the door they&#8217;re all grumpy except Luke.\u00a0 Nice to see the medication toning down his high anxiety enough so his natural positive spirit can shine through.<\/p>\n<p>Pulling to the curb to drop the youngest (10 now) off to school for breakfast, I manage to get out an &#8220;I love you&#8221; before he slams the door.\u00a0 And grin as I see more than hear him say, &#8220;I hate you&#8221; in reply.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ah.. and so we see a peak of puberty&#8217;s mood swings!&#8221;\u00a0 I announce to the car.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What are you talking about,&#8221; says Evan, &#8220;he&#8217;s always angry.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ha! That&#8217;s nothing,&#8221;\u00a0 I answer the 12 year old, &#8220;compared to the mood swings he&#8217;ll have in 2 years when he&#8217;s 12!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Continuing the conversation as we drive to Luke&#8217;s drop off, I speculate that Conor with his ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder) is the most likely of my 3 to die his gorgeous red hair black, wear eyeliner &amp; pierce something!<\/p>\n<p>My &#8220;I love you&#8221; to Luke is met with a smile and a &#8220;I love you too,&#8221; and an over-enthusiastic slam of the made-of-tinfoil door of my little Corrolla.<\/p>\n<p>On the way to Evan&#8217;s drop off, he says, &#8220;are you saying Conor is going to get MORE irritating!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I laugh at him as he&#8217;s completely missing the irony that HE is 12 and HE is moody and HE is BEING moody at this very moment.\u00a0 Of course, I&#8217;m giving him the usual lecture of &#8220;take notes or no electronic time&#8221; so he&#8217;s frowning at me.<\/p>\n<p>As he gets out I grin big at him and say, &#8220;I love you!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Meh.&#8221; is his reply&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>But he grins at me too.<\/p>\n<p>I love my kids.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>God I love my kids.\u00a0 They are endless sources of love and, more obviously, of amusement! First day of school after a long weekend and its no surprise they slept late.\u00a0 Rushing them through a quick breakfast and out the &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3340\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3340","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-the-joy-of-family"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3340","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3340"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3340\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3505,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3340\/revisions\/3505"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3340"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3340"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3340"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}