{"id":3570,"date":"2012-05-09T16:40:23","date_gmt":"2012-05-09T23:40:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3570"},"modified":"2025-11-02T17:33:36","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T00:33:36","slug":"designations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3570","title":{"rendered":"Designations"},"content":{"rendered":"

Labels can be amusing.<\/p>\n

Yes, they can be harmful. \u00a0If the label is used to discriminate or judge in a way that impacts your livelihood, then THAT is terrible. But if the label is just others being mean, or not really applicable, well it’s called “self” esteem for a reason! \u00a0 Love who you are and embrace your imperfections and all the name calling really won’t matter<\/p>\n

I have several designations that some women would find upsetting. But they are true and to be honest kinda complimentary.\u00a0 Although other women might dislike my designations if they applied to them.<\/p>\n

Cougar….\u00a0\u00a0 an older woman who dates younger men.\u00a0\u00a0 Now some women my age shy away from the young man but I think if attraction is there, age means nothing.\u00a0 Plus lets face it.. if you can pull in a beautiful body with a fun personality which also includes a lasting libido… kuddos!<\/p>\n

MILF….\u00a0\u00a0 Now… not every Cougar is a mother and not every mother is a Cougar.\u00a0 But to be classified as a MILF is frankly a compliment.<\/p>\n

But what I really am is a Slut.\u00a0 A woman who just loves sex.\u00a0 And has less qualms about only sleeping with the one you love.\u00a0 My morals are different<\/em> from the average woman not wrong.\u00a0 How do I know?\u00a0 I love my Sex God but I have no qualms sharing him and he has no qualms sharing me.<\/p>\n

I met one of his co-workers recently.\u00a0 This co-worker and I had been FB friends for a long time so he knows my “philosophies” on life.\u00a0 haha\u00a0 After meeting me he told Sex God he is now looking for a Cougar.\u00a0 Sex God told him.\u00a0 “When I joined the site I wasn’t looking for a Cougar… I was looking for a Slut.\u00a0 Cuz I wanted sex and lots of it.”<\/p>\n

He is, of course, ecstatic he found me.\u00a0 He got more than his slut.\u00a0 He got a girlfriend, a fellow music fan & someone he can adore who adores him back.<\/p>\n

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My Long and Lean Cub<\/p><\/div>\n

But when I get a text from a cub this delicious asking if I’m free… well, my automatic response is YES!\u00a0 Of course its a booty call.\u00a0 Who cares.\u00a0 I’m not in love with him.\u00a0 He treats me with respect and he’s not ashamed to be seen with a Cougar\/MILF\/Slut.<\/p>\n

Too bad I got strep throat and had to cancel my booty call!\u00a0 Drat it!!<\/p>\n

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