{"id":3800,"date":"2012-10-23T10:29:20","date_gmt":"2012-10-23T17:29:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3800"},"modified":"2025-11-02T17:24:07","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T00:24:07","slug":"key-communication","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3800","title":{"rendered":"Key Communication"},"content":{"rendered":"

So a bit ago I had a weekend of fun that left me more unsettled than satisfied.\u00a0 I won’t go into too many details as those participating might not want my opinion specifically aired!<\/p>\n

I will say that Tasty Man is as tasty as ever but he MUST heal is back so our time can live up to HIS expectations!\u00a0\u00a0 I’m always satisfied \ud83d\ude42\u00a0\u00a0 And I will say that Great White Cock (justly deserved nickname heehee) well, lets just say I have ideas to make our time together even more fun than the fun we had but he needs to get outa his comfort zone!<\/p>\n

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It's only Respectful!<\/p><\/div>\n

I also spend time at the beach with Sex God & well for some reason by Monday I had all these very strange feelings about the whole thing.\u00a0\u00a0 But like I’ve said before in a previous blog the best part about being almost 50 is I don’t have to hide my feelings or play games to get them out or feel heard.\u00a0 I just sent him an email.<\/p>\n

Which because of his crazy work schedule he promptly didn’t notice for 3 days! lmao\u00a0 So for 3 days I’d poured my feelings & confusion & neediness into a vehicle and waited for a response.\u00a0 Then he sent me a text saying how much work sucked & I said, “Well, then don’t read the email I sent until the weekend.”\u00a0\u00a0 Which, of course, prompted him to read it.<\/p>\n

And then he did the exact opposite of smart.\u00a0 He treated it lightly with joking texts.\u00a0 Which, of course, made me feel my feelings were invalid.\u00a0\u00a0 And duh, I ALREADY knew they were crazy and invalid… I just wanted him to know I was feeling them & that they were the reason I might be pulling away a bit.\u00a0 To deal with said insanity.\u00a0 And if would be nice if he’d like to help me deal by eliminating some of them with a bit of reassurance & ego stroking.\u00a0 hahaha.<\/p>\n

So the next day he called and we talked it out.\u00a0 Because we are grown ups.\u00a0 And because when you ARE in a relationship, communication is a primal part of keeping<\/em> said relationship.\u00a0\u00a0 And I felt a bit better.\u00a0 But I knew that the only thing that would truly fix it would be to get a good fix from my Sex God.\u00a0 But our timing wasn’t going to have that any time soon.\u00a0 So I sighed and went on.<\/p>\n

And then started my period the next day!!!<\/p>\n

Turns out the whole “strange feelings & insecurity” was PMS!<\/p>\n

Dammit, Menopause!!!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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