{"id":3835,"date":"2012-09-25T12:35:49","date_gmt":"2012-09-25T19:35:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3835"},"modified":"2025-11-02T17:26:03","modified_gmt":"2025-11-03T00:26:03","slug":"that-chemistry-look","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=3835","title":{"rendered":"That Chemistry Look"},"content":{"rendered":"

I had a lovely weekend with Sex God but that didn’t stop me from being, well, ME when we went out to dinner with his friends to celebrate his friend’s 29th B-day.<\/p>\n

We were part of a group of about 15 people and I knew about 6 of them.\u00a0 I am happy to say I did NOT monopolize the conversation nor turn it into sex and naughtiness.\u00a0 Mostly because we were at the Raiforest Cafe at Disney, lol and as much as I felt the urge to find a secluded place to fuck just to fuck Disney… we were also with the parents of the hostess and while I may seem uncaring of convention, I try very hard not to push the boundaries of friends when they’re being proper for their parents sake.<\/p>\n

Now that doesn’t mean I’m not caressing my Sex God and kissing him whenever the desire strikes me to do so.\u00a0 Nor does that mean I’m NOT squealing in a breathy gasp when he reaches a hand down and squeezes my leg just above my knee!\u00a0 We did get a comment from one of our friends, “Every time I look over at you two, you’re making a porno!”\u00a0 To which I replied, “If I was making a porno my hand would be down his pants.”\u00a0\u00a0 Sex God can only grin and comment, “Oh my!”<\/p>\n

Needless to say it was a very fun evening.\u00a0 And it was made even more fun when into our patio area walked a young Cub carrying a toddler.\u00a0 He was obviously entertaining the 18 month old boy while they waited for food or waited to finish their food or waited to be seated.\u00a0 As a mother, I have sooo been in those shoes and I knew EXACTLY what he was doing!<\/p>\n

Oh, but I also knew he was a Cub.\u00a0 A Cougar loving Cub.\u00a0 See when I saw him… this dark haired All-American looking young, fit, short (hey… its part of my preference!) man the Cougar in me went from leisurely enjoying the company of my friends and lover to Alert Prowl status.\u00a0 As if delicious prey had just walked into my vicinity.\u00a0 As it indeed had.\u00a0 If I’d been an actual Cat my ears would have perked forward and my eyes tracked him with my stare.<\/p>\n

The Cougar in me liked what she saw.\u00a0\u00a0 And she like the amused humor in his voice as he told the toddler, “Yup… aannnd nothing to see here either… nooothing to see.”\u00a0\u00a0 I’m grinning at his words due to remembering doing that with my kids and he sees my grin and smiles back.<\/p>\n

And how do I know this man was Cub\/Prey…. because of the way he keep eye contact with me, grinning back.\u00a0 He knew he’d peaked my interest.\u00a0 It was easy to see the desire in my eyes… the desire to see him naked and hard…. the desire to kiss his lips, taste his body.\u00a0 It only took an instant for the chemistry to flair in my body and shoot out my eyes to his like lasers!<\/p>\n

That is how a Cougar just is…\u00a0\u00a0 we are secure within ourselves that when we see something or someone we want we have no qualms in showing that interest.\u00a0\u00a0 That very boldness is one of our largest attractions to Cubs, especially ones who are a little tired of dealing with the conflicting signals of their own generation.\u00a0 The generation who will flirt & go to bed with you and literally IN THE MIDDLE of sex begin to hedge and haw about how this was a “bad idea”.<\/p>\n

Desire is good and follow up is even better.\u00a0\u00a0 This was mutual Chemistry with just one look.\u00a0 I glanced at his left hand and didn’t see a wedding ring and immediately hope he’s an uncle or a very older brother of the toddler!\u00a0 Sex God is completely aware of my interest and just smiles at my reaction.\u00a0 I whisper to him…\u00a0 “ooooo… maybe that’s not his kid.. I don’t need kids… I don’t see a ring, and oh, he’s just delicious!”<\/p>\n

Because my Sex God is secure in our relationship and he knows I can’t actually take the Cub home as my kids are there and as much as a Cub loves a Cougar he’s not that interested in joining her harem at the onset! heeheehee.\u00a0 I did\u00a0 (as I’d sincerely hoped I would) see the young Cub again on the way out.\u00a0 Again with the toddler.\u00a0 He wasn’t looking my way, so I could only give a parting word of, “Another tour I see” before moving on.<\/p>\n

The Cougar in me wanted to seduce him straight out of his clothes.\u00a0 But I knew no circumstances in the world was going to make that happen.\u00a0 Just not going to.\u00a0 And the whole drive home he was in my thoughts… the chemistry was that strong.\u00a0 I love my Sex God with all my heart and know he loves me, but monogamy isn’t a game either of us are interested in playing.\u00a0 And it works for us.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>But I regret NOT being able to follow through on the desire to act on the chemistry.\u00a0 So short of finding some “missed connections” ad on Craigslist, lol, I was forced to finally make the business cards I’ve been saying I was going to do just for these types of occasion.\u00a0 What do you think?<\/p>\n

See, I’m often wonderfully bold in a drive-by way because of time and circumstance and wish the Cubs would follow up, but sadly they are usually more stunned and left with a fabulous story than an actual encounter.\u00a0 Hopefully this will change that, maybe.\u00a0 Either way, I’m a big proponent of Fate and Opportunity and this just ups the stakes a bit.\u00a0\u00a0 And if nothing more happens than I get a little more traffic to this blog, its still a win.<\/p>\n

But who knows.\u00a0\u00a0 \ud83d\ude42\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 And on that note, I’m going to take a peak, JUST FOR CURIOSITY!!! on craigslist.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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