And so when I arrived I already had dates set up for Thursday and Friday.\u00a0 Two different men both in their late 30’s with the winner of my preference getting me for Saturday night.\u00a0 Or if I didn’t like either of them then I’d spend Saturday alone.\u00a0 Win\/win really. lol\u00a0\u00a0 Although I will admit I had 2 other back up candidates.<\/p>\n
So Thursday I arrive and check in (nice room) and can’t set up (dammit!) and hug Nilda the conference coordinator I see every year and wish her a Happy Birthday (thank you Facebook lmao) and go down to the bar at 6 to\u00a0 meet my date.\u00a0 Happens one of the Heather Converts, Joan, is coming in by then and joins me at the bar to try and catch up like we vow to do every year and barely manage it cuz she’s off smoozing and now I’m off dating! lol.<\/p>\n
My Thursday night man, Joseph, texts that he’s running late and I warn him Joan is with me but only staying 10 minutes more or so.\u00a0 As a gentleman he asks if I want him to wait until she’s gone and I urge him to arrive whenever he can, Joan is apprised of the situation and for those who know me I have no secrets really. Obviously!\u00a0 Remember, my readers, I’m not ashamed of how I live my life.\u00a0 And a Heather Convert usually is well versed in how “bold” I can be.\u00a0 Besides I didn’t want to miss out on hearing about Joan’s new man!<\/p>\n
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<\/a>This is NOT him... but its close!<\/p><\/div>\n
In any case, Joseph finally arrives and I’m more than pleasantly pleased by his looks.\u00a0 In any of these situations you can only trust a picture and if you’re attracted to it, you can only hope they look the same in person.\u00a0\u00a0 Oh and Joseph looks MUCH hotter than his pictures and let me tell you, his pictures are hot!\u00a0 When he told me he still modeled at his late 30’s age and taught mixed martial arts I was thrilled hoping it meant he most likely DID NOT have lots of age-fat on his body (like I do! hahaha) but I wasn’t expecting six pack abs & a smooth long waist.\u00a0 Oh and his biceps and triceps and those ‘cepts along his back… drool is a word that barely covers it!\u00a0 And he’s amazingly sexy to look at.\u00a0 I mean… ALL THE TIME!\u00a0 The kind of eye candy that makes you lizard brain go “whoa” when you glance at him in conversation.\u00a0 Problem is it says it SO loud it’s hard to remember what you were talking about!<\/p>\n
So we chat with Joan for a short then we call for the tab.\u00a0 Cuz I REALLY want to get this man naked!\u00a0 Before Joan and I can say a word about separate checks Joseph tells the waitress that its on him.\u00a0 And he only had one drink!\u00a0 Whilst Joan and I each a drink and an appetizer.\u00a0 We both protest but its very clear that he’ll brook no argument.\u00a0 It was a surreal sensation in a way.\u00a0 Like being briefly transported to a different era filled with confident, dominate males.\u00a0 Its a very subtle thing and can be flustering to some, frustrating to others, but makes the slut in me purr.<\/p>\n
Joan said her goodbye’s and I asked Joseph if we should go upstairs to my room.\u00a0 He admitted he wasn’t sure if he’d met my requirements for play and I bust out laughing!\u00a0 See, yes, the “meet” is to verify chemistry but I wouldn’t have set up the meet if I wasn’t already attracted to the pictures.\u00a0 The meet was to VERIFY a man looked like the pictures.\u00a0 And he looked so much better than his pictures!\u00a0 If he was a local L.A. man I’d have given him a kiss and set up a play night.\u00a0 But I did not have that luxury here.\u00a0 He did comment as we stood up, “Aren’t you going to seduce me?”\u00a0 So I moved into his space with a smile and said, “If you’d like me to I’d be happy to.\u00a0 Did you want a little PDA?”\u00a0 He counters, grinning, with a, “Maybe in the elevator.”\u00a0 But we just hurry straight to the room!<\/p>\n
When we got there he took immediate charge.\u00a0 But not how you would think.\u00a0 He was determined to give me an evening I wouldn’t easily forget.\u00a0 He started it with a full body message.\u00a0 Let me rephrase that… he gave me a PROFESSIONAL full body message… arms, legs, hands, feet, did the most moan-producing Shiatsu on my shoulders and back… got groans of pain combined with giggles as he did my calves which are apparently somewhat ticklish!\u00a0 Who knew!?!<\/p>\n
Of course he paid special attention to my breasts, did my stomach and sides & quads which I apparently have been neglecting on the foam roller at the gym.\u00a0 I did my very best take the pain as I knew these knots needed to be out but it was excruciating!\u00a0 And all the while my hands were itching to touch the naked glory of the erection so near to me.\u00a0 Whenever I secretly tried he’d bat my hand away.\u00a0 It was a delicious game.\u00a0 Made even more fun when he rolled me onto my stomach again to work on my ass and shoulders and placed that silken hardness in my hands.\u00a0 It was an instant turn on and had me wiggling to get more of him to touch.\u00a0 (and wishing I’d trimmed my nails!)<\/p>\n
So for at least 30 minutes I got a professional massage from an underwear model and while this sounds highly sought after\u00a0 there were many moments I thought, “there is nothing that will make a woman more self conscious of her body’s flaws than a naked full body massage by a new lover!”\u00a0 And it was incredibly surreal to look down at the gorgeous man massaging my feet with a look of intensity and desire in his eyes.\u00a0 I felt as if I was in some Lifetime romance movie!\u00a0 Part of my wanted to laugh at the absurdity of ME having this experience and another part of me was unconsciously falling under the spell of it all.<\/p>\n
But I’m trying really hard not to crack jokes from these eye-rolling thoughts going on in my head.\u00a0 This man is very seriously trying to give me a spectacular evening.\u00a0 An evening most women would be incredibly thrilled to have.\u00a0 And he’s doing it with complete sincerity!\u00a0 And doing it with such perfection and I wanted to honor that. \u00a0 So I bottle up my rampaging humor, which let me tell you isn’t easy, but\u00a0 lucky for me his arresting looks kinda short circuit a lot of my brain activity.\u00a0 Yet when he tells me he will instantly do whatever I ask him to I’m at a loss! \u00a0 (Okay…. I’ll admit it… he whispered it in between kisses, NOT helping.)\u00a0 He tells me all I have to do is utter the words and within minutes we’d be doing it.\u00a0 Any “it” I ask for.<\/p>\n
Wow… my mind went blank.\u00a0 (Or maybe it was the kisses.)\u00a0 Yes, I want sex with him, but he’s asking what exactly I’d like to do next.\u00a0 Oral?\u00a0 He’s going to want specifics!\u00a0 69, just him on me, just me on him, ass play also, finger only?\u00a0 Specifics, people lets get on this!\u00a0 And I’ve just had a glorious massage!\u00a0 I can barely orchestrate a thought much less anything sexual when I’m THIS relaxed!\u00a0\u00a0 Did I mention the kisses?<\/p>\n
I think I just whisper one of the many possibilities running through my head and we are doing it.\u00a0 And it was glorious.\u00a0 He was amazingly skilled and beautifully hung.\u00a0 His fingers had me squirting almost across the room!\u00a0 Something than no one, not Sex God, not Tongue God, nor Phat Boy or Tasty Man or Hottie had ever achieved.\u00a0 Yes I squirt but its very situational.\u00a0 Usually I’m standing and the man is long fingered and my legs are far apart and he’s fucking me with his hands hard and fast and hitting some spot along with my clit in juuuuust such a way.\u00a0 Actually I’m never sure exactly what they are doing to do that to me.\u00a0 lol\u00a0\u00a0 And usually it can be more painful than pleasurable!\u00a0 But the skill of Joseph was so amazing as he did it to me over and over and when I told him after the first time to stop cuz it has hurt in the past he did it again in just a slightly different way that it didn’t hurt at all.<\/p>\n
Thankfully the mess was mostly on the towel we laid down for the massage!\u00a0 And less you think his performance on fucking didn’t match the wonderful skill with his fingers you are just fooling yourself!\u00a0 Glorious and loving and long and lots of orgasms later I’m telling him that what I’d really like was for him to cum!\u00a0\u00a0 His pre-cum was delicious!\u00a0 And as usual the actual load had that slight metal tang.\u00a0\u00a0 Honestly I think I like the taste of cum but not sperm!\u00a0 Epiphany!<\/p>\n
We rest, then shower, talking all the while.\u00a0 I’m just visually eating him up and almost want to strip the clothes off him when he’s dressed cuz he’s beyond scrumptious in a charcoal long coat… mmmmmmm.<\/p>\n
Where was I?\u00a0\u00a0 Oh yes.\u00a0 \ud83d\ude42\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Joseph kisses me and tells me he’s available for Saturday if I decide he was good enough and I’m laughing.\u00a0 I slept soooo well that night.\u00a0 But too well on the firm bed and woke with such a stiff lower back.\u00a0 Probably the supporting knots in my back had been ironed out!<\/p>\n
We had pretty good sales considering how difficult it was to drag my mind away from my prior evening.\u00a0 By 7 pm I’m done for the night so head to the bar for an dinner of\u00a0 an appetizer and drink.\u00a0 I had them make a Pelican since they had Grey Goose Pear Vodka… which was delicious even though they used Coke and not Throwback Pepsi as is preferable by my Sex God who invented the drink.<\/p>\n
Mark shows up and he’s just as cute as his pictures and more of my regular type.\u00a0\u00a0 Slightly unsure what to do with such a confidant woman, pleasant to look at, smart & good company, more soft & naturally lean than hot.\u00a0 I easily take charge and enjoy a lovely night with him.\u00a0\u00a0 I’m even able to fulfill a few fetishes he has… but honestly we spent more time talking than actually fucking.\u00a0 After an hour or two he’s off on his way and I text Joseph to see if he’s free for the next evening.\u00a0\u00a0 Lucky me he is.<\/p>\n
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<\/a>Again... NOT him... but smoldering looks & tousled hair similar!<\/p><\/div>\n
Another day of selling, this time the sales are abysmal!\u00a0 I think the recession has finally hit my business this year.\u00a0 Ah well… it just encourages me to push us in new directions.\u00a0\u00a0 But I cannot be sad about sales.\u00a0 I’m going to play with my now favorite Chicago man.\u00a0\u00a0 And I’m toying with nick names for\u00a0 him.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Finger God, Chicago Man, Mr. Gorgeous….\u00a0 so many choices.\u00a0 Because he’s so good at so many things!<\/p>\n
That night I got to talk more to him than on the first night and we even got daring and did anal, which I really didn’t think I could do with his size, but he’s a master of going gentle where needed & not when I want it rougher.\u00a0\u00a0 Plus its so easy to give him directions, that’s very important! lol\u00a0 But I only got 2 hours with him.\u00a0 And I really, really wanted more.\u00a0\u00a0 Not so much because of the sex, but because I valued his company.\u00a0\u00a0 But this blogs long enough, so maybe more on that later.<\/p>\n
I didn’t get a chance to do the Chicago music scene.\u00a0 Maybe another trip…. cuz I’d LOVE to visit Chi-town again.\u00a0 Sadly in 2013 the closest I’ll get is St Louis in May!\u00a0\u00a0 Other two conferences are on the east coast… and my boss will be with me on that May conference… sigh.\u00a0 Just my luck!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
This annual fall conference isn’t the best for sales, nor the best for future sale contacts, nor the one that pampers its exhibitors the most to make it a joy to attend.\u00a0 It isn’t even the one with the most … Continue reading