I know it’s been awhile since I’ve posted. And it’s not that there’s nothing going on in my life… just the opposite… it may be that I’ve found other things to occupy my energy. But when something unusual happens (and no doubt everyone around me is either sick of hearing about this or just thinks I’m crazy) I want to put it down on paper and this blog is the best equivalent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I met a guy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
That in itself isn’t unusual. How we met isn’t unusual (yes.. met him off the sex site). Had a good first meet and set up a play date… also not unusual. Had a very good play date… all these facts have been repeated endlessly for 15 years. So what is the difference now? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The difference is the intense connection I have with this man. His geek speaks to my geek… his spontaneity speaks to my spontaneity… when the conversation flows to my favorite band Nothing But Thieves, he spouts the lyrics… when his pics show him drumming and he admits he drums in a band, my inner slut for drummers purrs. I can barely contain the desire to get my hands on his long, thick wavy black hair, but we sidetrack with a trip to the liquor store so I can introduce him to my favorite Chocolate and Banana whisky by Scatterbrain. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
And that was just the meet! <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The play date was different also. Things I’d usually not prefer in a lover were just absolutely wonderful with this man. The transition from enjoying sushi to enjoying each other naked was so seamless I felt like a sexy goddess in the hands of a man who knew exactly what to do. And he even thought to ask for boundaries from me (although I was so addicted by then it would have been a yes to just about everything) before pushing past the typical and taking me right to the border of those boundaries. And boy did I love riding that wave. And not ONCE did I need any lubrication! Seriously, it was like being right back into my 40’s and at my sexual peak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I was 15 minutes late to work cuz we got so wrapped up in being around each other just talking that we (or for sure, ME!) forgot there was a time limit on that first play date! I was physically sated and purring but mentally a bit stunned, confused & distracted my whole shift at work. Ironically when I checked in with him that same day he was energized but also a bit disoriented on our intensity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And just like when Fate decides to bring a person into my life, I can see the patterns between us and in those moments I understand why so long ago mankind had invented religion. Ha! So when this man suggested we become buddies on our mutual astrological app Co-Star I was so surprised he was on the app and pleased he wanted to, I said sure. (Not knowing how to do that cuz apps are still a little foreign for me and him just walking up and beeping it into existence.) <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now before everyone yells at me… I don’t often follow the day to day of astrology (although sometimes it hilariously accurate) but I DO tend to live up to most predictions in my chart. (I’m so Aries the first 4 houses of my chart are … Aries, Aries, Sagittarius, Aries.. like. ALL fire!) So when I was talking with my friend about this new guy who’s a Sagittarius…she immediately exclaimed, “We love Sags! They’re so much fun! They love to just throw you around in bed.” Which exactly happened and was amazing and surprising and WTF how did she know that before I told her!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Then she pulls our charts (probably used ChatGTP) and.. in her words.. “Holy shit dude, I’ve literally never seen more compatible natal charts! His sun is in your moon sign which tends to make you obsess over him”… and I realized THAT is what’s going on in my head… cannot get this man off the forefront of all my thoughts… and THEN she says.. “AND your sun is his moon, which makes him obsess over you”… and I relax a bit cuz I can handle an obsession if it’s on both sides. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
There’s more but it’s all good compatibility and when I bring it up to him he agrees this is a unique connection. Which we are both very eager to test this again, so we set up time on my next day off 6 days later. By the 5th day, with little effort, he got me over to his place again before my work shift. And…. it was mind blowing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
First off, I walk in the door and he’s naked just out of the shower and I my libido spikes off the charts at his naked body. I’ve been throbbing and wet just on the drive through traffic to get to him. He’s got me instantly in his arms and we’re off. (I could go into detail but then I’d have to stop typing and go masturbate.) Let me just say that it had been sooooo long since I’d been fingered so expertly that I forgot I squirted heavily and used to always have to lay down a towel, so I soaked his bed.. twice. Whatever he was doing with his fingers was amazing, like my clit and pussy were a keyboard he was playing chords on. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I don’t know how long this will last… he is 30 years my junior… but I’m going to enjoy every minute of this ride for as long as he wants it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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I know it’s been awhile since I’ve posted. And it’s not that there’s nothing going on in my life… just the opposite… it may be that I’ve found other things to occupy my energy. But when something unusual happens (and … Continue reading