{"id":949,"date":"2010-01-17T13:20:02","date_gmt":"2010-01-17T20:20:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=949"},"modified":"2025-11-05T10:06:18","modified_gmt":"2025-11-05T17:06:18","slug":"younger-vs-older","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=949","title":{"rendered":"Younger vs Older"},"content":{"rendered":"

Men are different across the board but most people put them into stereotypical categories.\u00a0 And I’ll touch some of the other categories later but right now I want to share what I’ve learned about the stereotype differences between the younger man and the older man.<\/span><\/p>\n

Before sex even enters into it there is a difference most assume right off.\u00a0 The older man is confident and mature.\u00a0 This is often true in many older men in many areas of their life… but not necessary sexually.\u00a0 And I’ve found that maturity and certainly confidence can also be true for the younger man…again, depending upon the younger man.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

What I’ve observed is the younger man who is INTERESTED in the older woman already has a level of maturity and confidence beyond his peers.\u00a0 Which may be why he finds the older woman attractive.\u00a0 As the women in his peer group often have a lot of the drama and expectations common for their age.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

The other expectation\u00a0 and stereotype of the older man involves skill.\u00a0 This too isn’t a hard and fast rule.\u00a0 The statistics that the older man will have more skill due to experience is sound but the individual factors out way them completely. \u00a0 IF his experience has been with just one woman he may not actually know how to please a new one beyond what he did with that other one.\u00a0 Or if his experience has been with uncommunicative women he may never have learned true skill.\u00a0\u00a0 Yet the odds do favor he learned SOMETHING and had more years to get that chance.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Again, though.. it truly depends on the individual.\u00a0\u00a0 And here it doesn’t matter if he finds an older woman attractive or not.\u00a0 Some younger men find they want an older woman because they see her as a way to acquire the skills they desire.\u00a0 A teacher.\u00a0 Others find the older woman attractive because she’s less work.\u00a0 She’s not relying on your telepathic ability to figure out how to please her.\u00a0 And she’s not accepting what you’re doing as pleasure if its NOT, just because she “loves” you.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

So maturity and skill are stereotypes we assume the older man has and the younger man doesn’t.\u00a0 And neither is guaranteed.\u00a0 As a woman, should you get to experiment with both and the ages in between, you will find this out yourself.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

One stereotype that DOES play out more often than not is the level of physical fitness.\u00a0 Young men rarely, although not impossible, have acquired the level of “extra padding” that age has put on most men.\u00a0\u00a0 There are exceptions and we’ve seen how the older man can “suck in his gut” but most men forget that they don’t have the flat stomach of their youth and leave those muscles loose and relaxed most of the time.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Yet sometimes the older man genetically never develops that gut or becomes much more fitness conscious and works hard to keep his body in shape.\u00a0 And sometimes, especially with this generation, the younger man lets himself go.\u00a0 That is the outward sign of immaturity that may cross all age lines.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

But its the last stereotypical category that is truly the most important.\u00a0 And sadly the most impossible to pre-test.\u00a0 Endurance.\u00a0 MOST assume the older man has the control to prolong his erection.\u00a0 But some forget the factor age plays in acquiring the erection AND in keeping that erection hard, not to mention just how hard. \u00a0 Here the younger man has the advantage.\u00a0 He might not have the control to hold off that first orgasm but he’ll have the hormones to get erect again pretty quickly.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

And that is a factor I do enjoy.\u00a0 I enjoy it when a man orgasms.\u00a0 If I’m only going to get one… that’s okay… but if I can get more than one, well, I think I might prefer that!\u00a0\u00a0 I love the fact I can drive a young man to a quick release orally (because I love doing that) and then shortly after still get to enjoy him sexually.\u00a0 If I think the older man only has one orgasm in him.. well I’m almost afraid to touch him for fear I’ll take him too close.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Worse case scenario (and this has happened to me) he doesn’t orgasm at all!\u00a0 Leaving me with what most men must feel after making love to a silent,\u00a0 immobile woman.\u00a0 Slightly unsatisfied with their own satisfaction.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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