{"id":992,"date":"2010-02-19T10:18:27","date_gmt":"2010-02-19T17:18:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=992"},"modified":"2025-11-04T11:16:00","modified_gmt":"2025-11-04T18:16:00","slug":"the-penis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=992","title":{"rendered":"The Penis"},"content":{"rendered":"

I think the Penis is a wonderful thing. <\/strong><\/span>But we all know how “unique” my attitude, beliefs and general sense of “private” is, so is anyone really surprised by that statement?\u00a0\u00a0 I didn’t think so.\u00a0\u00a0 And I’m sure many of my more conservative readers have stopped reading by now if they even made it past the title! <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Good, because more than the penis, I enjoy a wonderful erection.\u00a0 It is my favorite toy.\u00a0 I could spend hours (okay maybe 1 hour)\u00a0 touching, caressing and well, ecetera!\u00a0 Out of the sheer enjoyment of doing so.
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And they are so the same and so individual to the man.\u00a0\u00a0 While generally they all look the same the differences are so fascinating to me.\u00a0 And its more than just size, there are so many variable that are possible with each man.\u00a0 The hardness level.\u00a0\u00a0 Are they thin but long.\u00a0 Are they thick but short.\u00a0 Are they a little softer at the base so they hang down.\u00a0\u00a0 Large head on a thinner shaft or an average head on a thick shaft.\u00a0 So many variables!
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Like I said, my favorite toy. <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

And that may be why I enjoy oral sex so much as I get to take longer to play with my favorite toy. (see previous blog on BJ’s!)\u00a0 But don’t get me wrong.\u00a0 As much as I love oral sex, I adore <\/em>intercourse.\u00a0 Because that wonderful toy is deeply more satisfying on a different level than so many things.\u00a0 Man-made toys can be fun and can even make the act of intercourse transcendent, but they cannot replace it.\u00a0 For me at least.\u00a0 The same can be said for manual and oral stimulation.\u00a0 Wonderful orgasms, yes.\u00a0 And I love that you love to do that and feel my pleasure at what you’re doing.\u00a0 But it IS foreplay and not enough to leave me blissfully sated.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

It’s the wonderful combination of hitting that “spot” knowing you’re getting pleasure from it also.\u00a0 And when we take that pleasure up to the primal level and there is no “making love” to it, the orgasms satisfy me emotionally in a way all the other ones don’t quite do.\u00a0\u00a0 (and trust me there are always lots of them!)<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

But back to the Penis.\u00a0 Men are only concerned with size if they think you are.\u00a0 If they believe maybe what God gave them they won’t satisfy you.\u00a0 And that, ladies, is our fault.\u00a0 Porn leads them to believe only big, hard cocks will do.\u00a0 So they feel if they are orally gifted enough to give you orgasms there you ‘ll be satisfied with whatever orgasms they give you with intercourse.\u00a0\u00a0 Although most men enjoy oral as much as I do because they are “givers” themselves.\u00a0 And you can tell the difference and always want these types of men (see previous blog on Generous Lover, lol) [I can’t believe I’ve gotten to the point where I’m referring to “previous blogs”!<\/em>]\u00a0\u00a0 And so many women are so shy about sex and orgasms that the male is left wondering and hoping she’ll be happy with what he’s endowed with.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Ah.. but size isn’t always a good thing.\u00a0 And the most delicious cock can be disappointing in the hands of someone just a little too inexperienced.\u00a0\u00a0 Plus it can be misleading.\u00a0 Several times I’ve had wonderful intercourse with someone long and average and with men who are average\/average.\u00a0 Sometimes its a matter of the perfect position for that size.\u00a0 And sometimes I’ve been amazed at how someone so large could feel like he’s not even there because with the condom on (always.. folks!) his friction was internal between him and the condom and not me and the condom!\u00a0 Again, easily fixable with a different position.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

So my ladies do not stay quiet and shy during sex.\u00a0 If he’s not doing it for you he may not have found the best position that works his size.\u00a0 And since no male has ever been very telepathic its up to us to suggest a change.\u00a0 Trust me in this.. he’ll appreciate any help that allows him to please you.
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Usually the only disappointing erection is the one that disappears too quickly in intercourse.\u00a0 Although I did have one encounter (before I was married… therefore\u00a0 before the site so stop panicking guys!)\u00a0 where the gentleman was truly too small to satisfy me.\u00a0 I actually woke up hornier than when we’d started and as I caressed the naked male next to me this little voice in my head said, “And just WHY are you doing that?\u00a0 Do you think you’ll leave MORE satisfied!)\u00a0 Needless to say, I stopped!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

The point being that Passion isn’t about size.\u00a0 And that EVERY luscious, hard cock is wonderful in his own way.\u00a0\u00a0 Plus for me its often about how much you lust me and how primal I can make you because then I’ll get that emotionally satisfying orgasm that wild passion with my favorite toy can give me.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Damn… is it Friday yet!\u00a0 Oh wait.. hee hee.. it is!\u00a0 Yippee!
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