{"id":4835,"date":"2018-12-01T16:45:31","date_gmt":"2018-12-01T23:45:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=4835"},"modified":"2021-05-13T19:34:41","modified_gmt":"2021-05-14T02:34:41","slug":"lets-do-a-rave","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=4835","title":{"rendered":"Let&#8217;s do a Rave!"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_4861\" style=\"width: 204px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4861\" class=\"wp-image-4861\" src=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3836-e1541781103384.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_3836\" width=\"194\" height=\"258\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3836-e1541781103384.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3836-e1541781103384-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3836-e1541781103384-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3836-e1541781103384-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 194px) 100vw, 194px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4861\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Color in the Hair!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Yes&#8230; yes, this post happened over a year ago, but I&#8217;m catching up!&nbsp; Bee happy!<\/p>\n<p>So Sex God turned to me one day and said, &#8220;Lets go to EDC!?&#8221; &nbsp; (he recently did this to me again saying &#8216;lets go to Burning Man!&#8217; which was a definite and resounding NO!)&nbsp;&nbsp; My response was, &#8220;How about we try a baby rave first.&#8221;&nbsp; I began to research and found several rave events but settled on Nocturnal in September.&nbsp; It was nicely priced, set on grass and not cement (a negative in my books for events), had several stages which meant choices, and most importantly it had a camping option!&nbsp; I got a cortisone shot for my heel spur to survive walking and dancing.&nbsp; And for the first time I dyed my hair!&nbsp; Two colors, a mix of red and blue.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4868\" style=\"width: 210px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4868\" class=\"wp-image-4868\" src=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3853-e1541780953521.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_3853\" width=\"200\" height=\"267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3853-e1541780953521.jpg 2448w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3853-e1541780953521-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3853-e1541780953521-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3853-e1541780953521-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4868\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Relaxing in the tent<\/p><\/div>\n<p>We didn&#8217;t spring for the exorbitantly priced car camping just the tent camping so it was a little different than Coachella.&nbsp; Once we parked the car we had to drag ALL our stuff to the site.&nbsp; The problem with this was 1. we&#8217;re doing this at night, 2. we foolishly thought we should do this in one trip, 3.&nbsp; we had to also go through security!&nbsp; (they confiscated ALL my glow sticks!!)&nbsp; So by the time we got through all THAT we were so tired we picked the first spot we saw.&nbsp; It quickly became apparent the 10&#215;10 allotted space was rather small for our large tent\/canopy AND that we&#8217;d forgot the blow up bed &amp; sleeping bags!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4872\" style=\"width: 214px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4872\" class=\"wp-image-4872\" src=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_3839.png\" alt=\"IMG_3839\" width=\"204\" height=\"215\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_3839.png 640w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_3839-142x150.png 142w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_3839-284x300.png 284w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 204px) 100vw, 204px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4872\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Painted accessories drying!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The first day doesn&#8217;t start until sunset, so there is lots of relaxation time and time to explore.&nbsp; And time to let my Sex God painted shoes and hat to dry!&nbsp; Nocturnal was held at the Glen Helen Regional Park and there&#8217;s a water slide plus a large wading pool!&nbsp;&nbsp; From the camping to the event there was snacks sold and space with house music dancing which turned into a silent disco at midnight.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4862\" style=\"width: 179px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4862\" class=\"wp-image-4862\" src=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3838-e1541781084333.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_3838\" width=\"169\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3838-e1541781084333.jpg 2448w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3838-e1541781084333-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3838-e1541781084333-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3838-e1541781084333-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4862\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Silly Sex God!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>There was a long line to get into the event and they separated the lines into two sections, male and female.&nbsp; Of course the girl lines went SLOW since we carry purses to inspect!&nbsp; But the BONDING that was happening in line was wonderful.&nbsp;&nbsp; When I told them I was over 50 it seemed to inspire the youngsters that they wouldn&#8217;t get boring in the future when they got old . lol&#8230;if they only knew how unique I am!&nbsp;&nbsp; The kids quickly introduced me to P.L.U.R. which is Peace, Love, Unity &amp; Respect, with all the corresponding hand motions and bracelet exchange!&nbsp; Like I said, it was delightful!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4869\" style=\"width: 171px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4869\" class=\"wp-image-4869\" src=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3855-e1541780933672.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_3855\" width=\"161\" height=\"214\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3855-e1541780933672.jpg 2448w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3855-e1541780933672-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3855-e1541780933672-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3855-e1541780933672-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 161px) 100vw, 161px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4869\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The Beautiful Grounds<\/p><\/div>\n<p>That wonderful acceptance and instant friendship was continued through the weekend!&nbsp; I noticed that whenever Sex God left me comfortably sitting on the grass, happily watching everything to go off to get food or drink or the bathroom or do something I chose not to do&#8230; I was ALWAYS inexplicably joined by a single woman who would sit and chat.&nbsp;&nbsp; And when he returned, I&#8217;d introduce her and after a minute she&#8217;d abruptly off and go.&nbsp; At first I thought it was them who needed the company, but by day three when it also happened at the pool during the day I was realizing they thought I needed taken care of or protecting!&nbsp; I&#8217;ve never experienced<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4865\" style=\"width: 193px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4865\" class=\"wp-image-4865\" src=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3844-e1541781009858.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_3844\" width=\"183\" height=\"244\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3844-e1541781009858.jpg 2448w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3844-e1541781009858-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3844-e1541781009858-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3844-e1541781009858-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 183px) 100vw, 183px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4865\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Fun florescence!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>such female solidarity!&nbsp; Say WHATEVER you want about this new generation and raves, but they are truly wonderful people who look after each other.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll be honest, I really don&#8217;t remember &#8220;who we saw&#8221; as it was all more of a random wandering lead by our ears, and there was alcohol.&nbsp; There was A LOT of walking.&nbsp; A locker we purchased but NEVER used because Sex God never goes anywhere without his small backpack.&nbsp; Probably the reason people often asked us if we were &#8220;carrying&#8221;&nbsp; lol.&nbsp; Since we knew none of the artists&#8230; and since my hard rap nephew was our sole suggestion source&#8230; we just let the music and the moments guide us each night.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4867\" style=\"width: 197px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4867\" class=\"wp-image-4867\" src=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3851-e1541780971377.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_3851\" width=\"187\" height=\"249\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3851-e1541780971377.jpg 2448w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3851-e1541780971377-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3851-e1541780971377-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/05\/IMG_3851-e1541780971377-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 187px) 100vw, 187px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4867\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Do I fit it? lol<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The drink choices weren&#8217;t that thrilling but it was more like Bottlerock than Coachella in that it didn&#8217;t have a special fenced off drinking area and just let you walk around with your drink.&nbsp; It lived up to all our hopes! &nbsp; Oh and did I mention there were costumes? hahaha! &nbsp; The naked guy was great but the guy dancing in the disco outside of the venue in a Big Hero 6 costume was a lot of fun too!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_4871\" style=\"width: 197px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4871\" class=\"wp-image-4871\" src=\"http:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_3858.png\" alt=\"IMG_3858\" width=\"187\" height=\"233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_3858.png 471w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_3858-121x150.png 121w, https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/IMG_3858-242x300.png 242w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 187px) 100vw, 187px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-4871\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Must take picture!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes&#8230; yes, this post happened over a year ago, but I&#8217;m catching up!&nbsp; Bee happy! So Sex God turned to me one day and said, &#8220;Lets go to EDC!?&#8221; &nbsp; (he recently did this to me again saying &#8216;lets go &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/?p=4835\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4835","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-just-ramblings"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4835","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4835"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4835\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5028,"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4835\/revisions\/5028"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4835"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4835"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.heatherbarton.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4835"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}