Hello my fans… my peeps who actually read this blog. (And BiteME to the enemies who may be reading this for nefarious reasons.)
You may have read about the drama I had with my son’s meltdown at school. And how they wouldn’t take him back. And how the hospital sent me a bill for over $1T! But you didn’t hear about the emails my Ex & I exchanged about this.
I had hopes this incident would spur him to try to connect with his son on a level his son might understand. But not only does he NOT believe his son is worth trying new tactics to connect/parent/love him with, he’s convinced his remote, non-emotional, shuts down at conflict, corrects & doesn’t see how his son takes that as criticism because its not balanced with lots of praise… way is “how he parents & is just fine.”
Yes, he’s a asshole. But remember I’ve been doing ALL the real parenting for 14 years. Its just sad he doesn’t think his son is worth trying to better himself for.
Anyway… his emails boiled down to “I won’t take custody of Luke unless I’m in a public forum surrounded by unbiased adults. I have to think of MY safety in case Luke says some lie about how I’m treating him that gets me thrown in jail.” Plus he also stated, “Not in MY House and expressed outrage that the cops looked in HIS refrigerator and MY dog.” Which was amazing cuz he’s NEVER referred to his girlfriends house, pets or appliances as “his” before. (I don’t know what he’s whining about.. they came to my house also in all those times! lol)
Obviously SHE wrote the email. Or dictated it!
But he and she went to see Luke’s therapist. And I was all, “Yay!!! He’s taking steps to help our son.” Oh no, instead, she comes in (I’m assuming after some time of the therapist talking to my Ex) & is very adamant that she can’t be having Luke putting her teaching credentials at risk with police involvement. So she thinks he should not be around them while he’s like this. (I was informed of this out of concern for Luke, so I wouldn’t make Luke a fight over strict adhesion to the divorce agreement.)
So it clearly looks like my Ex is choosing his free meal ticket over our children. Stupid man. Like THAT isn’t going to bite him in the ass.
So now ALL my free time has disappeared. If there will never be another weekend I get to myself, then I’ll have no other choice but to sue for child support. (Luke eats almost double portions these days!) After all, he’s changing the custody. He’s going from 3 children for 10 out of 30 days with no child support to 2 children for the same amount of time. And if I’m not going to have any free time I might as well keep Evan with me also. She calls my shy boy, anti-social. I’m sorry, bitch, but you’re not allowed to damage his self esteem just cuz he takes after his father!!
All my friends cheer me on, but they don’t know how much this is going to cost me financially. Not to mention emotionally as I’ll be severely restricted in ANY private time. But I will have to do it for my kids sake. Although I may have to declare bankruptcy afterward! Haha.. but if that’s what I have to do, then so be it.
I didn’t sue for full custody cuz I didn’t want to end up relying on it & to be constantly trying to get it out of a man working a failing business. But he’s got a guarantee pension from the government. And he’s living no doubt mostly rent free with his meal ticket. So I’ll talk to the lawyer Thursday and see what he thinks and what it’ll cost and what I might get & be able to attach to his pension.
Which is WHY most of my blogs have a privacy block. Now, if you know me, you can FB me or email me or Msg me for the code. And if you don’t know you can just comment on an unblocked blog with a valid email & I’ll send it to you.
The silliest part of all this…? …is the EX is choosing this woman over his kids. No doubt she freaked out when cops came to her door to investigate the things our son said out of teenage exaggeration. (I’m assuming.) Just wait until she starts getting the creditors coming to her door looking for my Ex! See, I get calls from them all the time & NOW I have no reason NOT to give them his residence address also!
Wonder how long it will take before she finally kicks him out.
And what will I do then? I’m happy to make the custody 50/50 with no child support as long as he’s not living with anyone other than his kids. If he’d got an actual $10 an hour job ANYWHERE he could have done that… but he chose a different path. But sooner or later he’s gonna have to take that road anyway. Cuz Obamacare is going to completely suck away ALL the profit out of the insurance industry!
Nothing is better than Revenge by Obama!
QUICK UPDATE
Wrote this 3 years ago and its been a lot of letting him get away with BS until I finally took him to court for child support a year ago. He had the audacity to fight me on it, citing the blog as where I write porn, lmao, amongst other things. And he ended up employed because of Obamacare and I got child support which pissed him off soooo much he’s been insulting me to our children whenever he can.