I realize the other day, just WHY virgins would appeal to men.
I mean the only reason this was a question for me, was because of the number of men who tell me they love “the experienced woman”. It seemed to contradict with the cultural preference of Virginity.
But then in the few experiences I’ve had in the last 4 months (eye-rolling here at the memory) I realized WHY being a woman’s first time would appeal to some men.
Because she wouldn’t have anyone else to compare him to. He would shine because it was all she knew. His size, his hardness (or lack thereof) his skill, all that wouldn’t matter. For an insecure man this would be ideal. Although there is the balanced karmic side to it that you have to live up to her fantasies and ideal of this momentous moment. Plus deal with the emotion crap that will come with this.
But on the flip side of men, opposite of the one who wants to be first… there is the man who needs the feedback he’ll get from an experienced woman. No… strike that. It’s not the experience woman he really wants, it’s the woman in touch with herself enough to be able to express her pleasure. Loudly!
Virgins rarely do that.
Well, unless they’ve been letting porn train them into what sounds are expected!