My first novel is about a Cougar and I’ve observed several things as I write it while I upgrade myself and my life. Of course one of the most interesting things I observed is this ‘thing’ between Urban Cougars and the Cubs they date.
And I wonder…what do these women bring to the table? So I looked around at the young women and made observations about the differences between them and us. A lot of Cougars are just as hot and some are just as pretty as any twenty or thirty something. Most make just as much money, if not more, than any professional woman much younger. So what does the Cougar bring to the table that entices the cub away from his own age group?
Well, first and foremost I think it’s the sex. Yes, we all know that a Cougar knows what she wants and has no problem passing that information onto her partner. But many modern women today do that, although truthfully probably not all.
But remember most Cougars have entered their sexual prime. Imagine how much sex the average 18 year old male thinks about and all the surging testosterone. Now put that into the woman in her 40’s and you have a classic Cougar, constantly hot and ready for it. (Or is that just me?!?) Lucky for us men are sluts and happy to help out or we’d be as bad off as they were at 18! Maybe since they’ve been thru it they’re more sympathetic!
Yet back to the point. It’s not just the sex, it’s what the older woman doesn’t do that I think the cubs find appealing. She doesn’t really give a shit about your job, the car you drive, where you’re going with your life or most importantly…if you’re Mr. Right. She’ only interested in whether your body is enticing and you’re nice on the eyes. She wants to know can you last long enough to sate this overwhelming craving she has to bed you, over and over again.
So she’s not looking at you wondering if you might be the love of her life (like the young ladies probably are). She wants to know are you worth the effort of a test drive?
And the Cougar doesn’t walk around with that untouchable air younger women use to warn off men. You know the look, the “I’m out of your league” walk, stance or attitude. Some young women do it because they might not want to be bothered, others because they want you to try and ‘win’ them.
The Cougar’s attitude is “Look, admire, come on over and flirt all you want…I may be very interested, especially if you’ve caught me eyeing you.”
And if you want wild, without strings…a Cougar is the way to go. Especially if it’s been a while for her and all those excessive hormones are building up. We’re sensualists and selfish enough to demand what we want and seasoning has made us bold enough to go after it. I think that’s one of the reasons we don’t date men our age. We really don’t think they can last.
Although I heard a comic say this:
Hey, I can go all night too, I’ve worn a condom before!
Ladies you can find a guy who can go all night for you but remember the hassle afterward. You gotta get up early and drive him to school!
No worries for me… I’m up at 5 am!