Labels can be amusing.
Yes, they can be harmful. If the label is used to discriminate or judge in a way that impacts your livelihood, then THAT is terrible. But if the label is just others being mean, or not really applicable, well it’s called “self” esteem for a reason! Love who you are and embrace your imperfections and all the name calling really won’t matter
I have several designations that some women would find upsetting. But they are true and to be honest kinda complimentary. Although other women might dislike my designations if they applied to them.
Cougar…. an older woman who dates younger men. Now some women my age shy away from the young man but I think if attraction is there, age means nothing. Plus lets face it.. if you can pull in a beautiful body with a fun personality which also includes a lasting libido… kuddos!
MILF…. Now… not every Cougar is a mother and not every mother is a Cougar. But to be classified as a MILF is frankly a compliment.
But what I really am is a Slut. A woman who just loves sex. And has less qualms about only sleeping with the one you love. My morals are different from the average woman not wrong. How do I know? I love my Sex God but I have no qualms sharing him and he has no qualms sharing me.
I met one of his co-workers recently. This co-worker and I had been FB friends for a long time so he knows my “philosophies” on life. haha After meeting me he told Sex God he is now looking for a Cougar. Sex God told him. “When I joined the site I wasn’t looking for a Cougar… I was looking for a Slut. Cuz I wanted sex and lots of it.”
He is, of course, ecstatic he found me. He got more than his slut. He got a girlfriend, a fellow music fan & someone he can adore who adores him back.
My Long and Lean Cub
But when I get a text from a cub this delicious asking if I’m free… well, my automatic response is YES! Of course its a booty call. Who cares. I’m not in love with him. He treats me with respect and he’s not ashamed to be seen with a Cougar/MILF/Slut.
Too bad I got strep throat and had to cancel my booty call! Drat it!!