My fall annual conference is going to be held in Chicago this year. Last year it was held in Miami, Florida and I spent months hoping that Hottie would clear his schedule and come with me for 3 days of playing. But alas, he just couldn’t afford the ticket nor the time off work.
This year I asked Sex God and while he WAS able to afford the ticket to the conference at the END of October to San Francisco (Yay!) he couldn’t do SF AND Chicago also. So I got it into my head to try my dating profile to see if I could line up any company. And you know you’re dying to hear about how THAT went! You naughty readers!
See I never really end my membership off the site. I only close my profile to viewing so it SEEMs as if I left. And when I’m feeling bored with my current lovers, or of the amount of “want you” adoration THIS Aries needs… well, then I open my profile and see who emails me.
I HAVE used the site to try and find some company when I’ve been on a work trip but it was extremely short notice and there were no answers to my emails. Which is why I decided to do this now in August. Giving me plenty of time to see what members in Chicago might enjoy a night out. And in. So I updated the profile with a few new pix of me and a detailed opening paragraph clearly stating that I’m NOT interested in local guys only looking for “Chicago Cougar Connection for mid-October”. Literally, that was the tag line on my profile! lol
And boy was that fun! I can never tell which I love the most. The ego boost of their email when they see my profile or the ego boost of how pleased they are at the REAL me when they meet me or how I rock them in the bedroom if they get that far!
But within 6 days I realized I needed to close this lovely profile as I was having a lot of fun but had more prospects than the 3 nights in Chicago would allow! The numbers are: Total views of my profile in 6 days time = 1627. Total flirts (non-email inquiries) 62… 33 of them were men “hotlisting” me. I sent out 93 emails, but only 5 of them were me contacting men I was interested in. The rest were me answering emails sent to me. Because I STILL believe if you have the balls to send me an email I have the class to reply, even with a nice, “No, thank you”.
Which is the reason I keep my profile closed. As I tend to compulsively want to answer emails and then someone might interest me and suddenly all my free time is sucked into this whirlwind void of dating NEW men and I don’t get to play with the other men!
Anyway, I’m sure you are all wondering if I was successful Oh, don’t be silly, of course I was! I clicked with several men in the first few days but when I realized I was favoring two and already HAD two additional I felt were in the running, I knew it was time to stop! Ironically the numbers are exactly even between Cubs and Men-My Age. Even between the two local men who snuck past my defenses and clicked with my libido! lol
And of those two, the man my age turns out to be a very good kisser, we shall see how he does on a Date. And the local Cub is both delicious, smart, interesting and has his own apartment! I cannot tell you how much of a plus that is!
Oh but I’m now very, very excited about going to Chicago, too. With almost a month of email, texting, phone foreplay, this will be very fun! Very fun, indeed!
