I recently attended my second Swinger Party and it was much different than the first one on many levels.
Firstly, “I” was the invitee, instead of being the guest of the invitee. Meaning a former lover contacted me and invited me. This was important because with the host knowing me, I could trust he felt I’d get along with the group. That can take a lot of pressure off a woman, my age. heeheehee. Plus it also meant there would be at least ONE man there I’d be comfortable having sex with.
Secondly, this was much closer than the other one, which was in Riverside. Now for any readers unfamiliar with the Los Angeles area… Riverside is one of the 3 counties snugged together which Angeleans think of as Los Angeles (L.A. County, Orange County and Riverside County) Let me wrap your heads a little further around the size I’m talking here… Take the farthest north of L.A. County down to the farthest south of Orange County and you’ve driving a good 120 miles… extend the triangle west through Riverside county and you’ve driven another 120 miles. So the fact this party was a quick 15 minute drive and the previous one was an hour and a half is significant. Why is it significant? Well, because when its close and fun, then you’re eager to repeat it. 😀
Thirdly, this was a day event, not an evening event. Now, as a morning person who gets up MUCH too early to go to the gym every day, an evening out can have me sleepy by 10 or 11. (Which is exactly what happened at the last one. After an hour of getting fucked, I was sooooo tired I literally slept in the Porsche on the ride home! I was such a bad guest I had no idea if he’d had as much fun as me!) So the fact it was a deliciously warm day, the backyard was secluded and the pool was like bathwater.. well, it wasn’t long before we were all naked and just enjoying THAT whether we were participating in sex or talking or drinking.
Fourth big difference was in the couples. At the last one I only really interacted with one “couple” and the rest of the time was just playing with whatever cock was around me. (dark room, no glasses, lots of spectators lol) THIS time ALL the women were either bi-curious or bi-sexual so there was more play between them than between the sexes sometimes! Plus we were ALL at similar ages with bodies both beautiful and imperfect and we just didn’t care, which was frankly the most refreshing feeling EVER!
So the numbers went… 3 couples and 2 single ladies. Me being one of the single ladies. Now, before you assume.. YES, Sex God was supposed to come with me, but he got an unexpected job commitment and these days of unemployment he’s takes them wherever he gets them. Bear is still in Georgia (damn him) … and he’s just gnashing his teeth that he missed this event and REALLY hoping hes’ in town for the next one. (That would be around Christmas Mr. Host.. if you’re reading this 😀 ) Tongue God is firmly ensconced with his new girl (even though he’s not told her of his wild side.. sheesh.. he got the lecture from me of being honest now as it’s better sooner than later if her heart is attached.. and since its been 6 months I’m sure it is),…. its’ Baseball season for Tasty Man so he’s thoroughly busy, and of the new possibilities being tested none of them are ready for a swinger party. Cubs aren’t as experimental as you think.
Ironically all of the couples were FWB. None of them were married and/or in a relationship that I could tell. Long term FWB’s, some of them maybe, but none monogamous. I’m not even sure any were heart attached like Sex God and I. And one of the couples included a man I’d met 4 years ago on the site, enjoyed in the bedroom but didn’t really connect with on the friendship level. I remembered him a little more than he remembered me, but it was a lot of fun walking down that old memory lane. haha.
Enough setting of the scene for everyone? hahahaha… I can imagine a few people anxiously waiting for the “good” stuff. But here’s the thing… there was a lot of good stuff and I did participate in some of it… but not a lot of it. So I’ll give you the bare bones as that’s how much I did. Everyone got naked much quicker than I, but I eventually joined in. They’d all played before, I think, so I was more hesitant and they didn’t push that. The ladies jumped right in with each other and it was mostly like girl on girl and then a guy would join. Which can be fun, but I’m more of a “kiss and touch the girl” girl than I am a “let’s get her to orgasm” girl. (One of the girls and I actually bonded over that as she felt the same way) So I kind of watched for a bit, then joined in with a little touching here and there, a bit of kissing and I sucked a cock or two. The amusing part was listening and learning the tricks the ladies were sharing on what their men liked. I made them show me by example before I tried some of them. I showed her how I use back of your fingers as a pressure platform to caress the bottom of the prostate on a man on that area between his anus an his balls. That’s how relaxed and fun it was. (although that did effect the “passion” level)
One woman had beautiful breasts, another a gorgeous ass and I got to caress here and there and did get some nice fucking in. I even got a little compliment as I tried to pleasure a woman from behind as she sucked the cock of a man. I used my nails to gently scratch her back alternating with palming her ass. Then I tried to see if I could give her clitoral pleasure with my fingers. My nails were much too long for penetration, and honestly my fingers too small to do any good at reaching a g-spot. But I know what I like to feel so I did my best to see if I could get any pleasurable noises out of her. I used her own outer lips and pressure in a circular motion, kind of like that feeling you get when your tight jeans hit the right spot… and you just want to wiggle in your seat.
She and I at one point began to exchange tips on positions and I told her how different a clitoral orgasm feels legs closed than open. And about my Sex God and I’s fave position, flat doggy, where I’m on my tummy and he’s fucking me from behind. I also spanked her delicious behind, probably a little too hard, lol. But hey, it was her birthday!
There was about 4 hours of naked talk and sex and being in and out of the pool. The host was great, the company was wonderful and I must say… there is absolutely nothing that makes you like yourself more than spending time completely naked, outside, relaxed in your own body with a group of like minded naked people.
I totally get why nudists are nudists.
But I will also say… I really look forward to bringing Sex God next time. I think the ladies will be all over him, and I’d love to share my made-for-sex man. They’d be the same over Bear, should I ever get a chance when he gets back and I think I need the eye candy to help me bring out more of my inner slut.