As many may know I joined an online dating service. (So much fun) But you may not realize that the site I joined was called www.thecougarconnection.com as I figured if I was going to date.. why not try the younger men. How did I find this? Well.. off urbancougar.com of course! That site is actually linked to another site linked to several sites so men of all ages are emailing me. But there is the occasional cub. Actually there are a lot of cubs emailing.. but I must scare the shit out of them as they are the ones that tend to stand me up!
But there are so many I wondered if the ladies on urbancougar.com were even utilizing the dating site? So.. of course, ever helpful Heather, posted up a little story on urbancougar.com touting the dating site as the best “den” ever to find cubs and cougars alike. Gotta get some more women to take the load off me! Help out the poor men I turn down, at least!
The next step is to email the advice Cougar on urbancougar.com, Lucia, as she’s also the local cougar who throws cub/cougar parties. Last Valentines day she threw a speed dating event I was dying to go to .. but alas… I wasn’t free to attend it! Then there was a local cougar convention in L.A. but I was going to be in Virginia on business that very weekend! Aargggg…fate!
But the one time I emailed her asking when her next event would be she replied, quite promptly, telling me she’d put me on the mailing list. No word and that was months ago.. so I’m wondering if her parties have low attendance. And I wonder if the low attendance is cubs or cougars. “Little Fixer” me is thinking.. maybe I can help her out there! Suggest I can bring several cubs to the next event if THAT’s what she’s short on. Hell, I have several single girlfriends my age I might be able to drag to a cougar party!
In discussing the dilemma I’m having with so many REALLY interesting men who are in California but spread out (this is a LONG state, Dammit!) with a cub, I joked I should just take a few days off and do a road trip… hitting the men along the way. Like touring the wine country or something. He laughed with me, calling it a “cub tasting” tour.
And I had a light bulb moment. What a fabulous theme for Lucia’s next party. A wine and cheese, Cub Tasting party. The idea just sounds hysterically fun! Make a great Valentines event. Line them up and give them all a kiss… Who’s in with me!