I have been thoroughly enjoying my new “dating” experiment/experience. And some nights ago I tried something new. During sex. Oh, stop blushing!
The side table lights were on. No candles nor mood lighting… just an end table lamp that we’d actually forgotten was on. During the course of the passionate sex I ended up on top at one time. But instead of sitting on him and moving my hips I laid my body over his (and moved my hips..LOL).
This position got more than just pleasure for me. For the first time I was able to watch the face of the man I was enjoying. And it was amazing! His eyes were closed and he was just lost in the feeling of what I was doing to him. Little sounds and moans would spontaneously escape his lips. And his pleasure was clear to read in his expressions.
I realized THIS, ladies, is why men want to have sex with the lights on. This is why they don’t want you lying there still, with no sounds and no expression on your face. It is intensely satisfying to know just how much pleasure you are giving your partner. And he doesn’t even have to look me in the eyes to do it!
All this because the lights were on. And… he wasn’t so tall I came only to his nipples! Oh and because I was close enough to see him in focus without my glasses! I may never take them off again!