Men are different across the board but most people put them into stereotypical categories. And I’ll touch some of the other categories later but right now I want to share what I’ve learned about the stereotype differences between the younger man and the older man.
Before sex even enters into it there is a difference most assume right off. The older man is confident and mature. This is often true in many older men in many areas of their life… but not necessary sexually. And I’ve found that maturity and certainly confidence can also be true for the younger man…again, depending upon the younger man.
What I’ve observed is the younger man who is INTERESTED in the older woman already has a level of maturity and confidence beyond his peers. Which may be why he finds the older woman attractive. As the women in his peer group often have a lot of the drama and expectations common for their age.
The other expectation and stereotype of the older man involves skill. This too isn’t a hard and fast rule. The statistics that the older man will have more skill due to experience is sound but the individual factors out way them completely. IF his experience has been with just one woman he may not actually know how to please a new one beyond what he did with that other one. Or if his experience has been with uncommunicative women he may never have learned true skill. Yet the odds do favor he learned SOMETHING and had more years to get that chance.
Again, though.. it truly depends on the individual. And here it doesn’t matter if he finds an older woman attractive or not. Some younger men find they want an older woman because they see her as a way to acquire the skills they desire. A teacher. Others find the older woman attractive because she’s less work. She’s not relying on your telepathic ability to figure out how to please her. And she’s not accepting what you’re doing as pleasure if its NOT, just because she “loves” you.
So maturity and skill are stereotypes we assume the older man has and the younger man doesn’t. And neither is guaranteed. As a woman, should you get to experiment with both and the ages in between, you will find this out yourself.
One stereotype that DOES play out more often than not is the level of physical fitness. Young men rarely, although not impossible, have acquired the level of “extra padding” that age has put on most men. There are exceptions and we’ve seen how the older man can “suck in his gut” but most men forget that they don’t have the flat stomach of their youth and leave those muscles loose and relaxed most of the time.
Yet sometimes the older man genetically never develops that gut or becomes much more fitness conscious and works hard to keep his body in shape. And sometimes, especially with this generation, the younger man lets himself go. That is the outward sign of immaturity that may cross all age lines.
But its the last stereotypical category that is truly the most important. And sadly the most impossible to pre-test. Endurance. MOST assume the older man has the control to prolong his erection. But some forget the factor age plays in acquiring the erection AND in keeping that erection hard, not to mention just how hard. Here the younger man has the advantage. He might not have the control to hold off that first orgasm but he’ll have the hormones to get erect again pretty quickly.
And that is a factor I do enjoy. I enjoy it when a man orgasms. If I’m only going to get one… that’s okay… but if I can get more than one, well, I think I might prefer that! I love the fact I can drive a young man to a quick release orally (because I love doing that) and then shortly after still get to enjoy him sexually. If I think the older man only has one orgasm in him.. well I’m almost afraid to touch him for fear I’ll take him too close.
Worse case scenario (and this has happened to me) he doesn’t orgasm at all! Leaving me with what most men must feel after making love to a silent, immobile woman. Slightly unsatisfied with their own satisfaction.