I think the Penis is a wonderful thing. But we all know how “unique” my attitude, beliefs and general sense of “private” is, so is anyone really surprised by that statement? I didn’t think so. And I’m sure many of my more conservative readers have stopped reading by now if they even made it past the title!
Good, because more than the penis, I enjoy a wonderful erection. It is my favorite toy. I could spend hours (okay maybe 1 hour) touching, caressing and well, ecetera! Out of the sheer enjoyment of doing so.
And they are so the same and so individual to the man. While generally they all look the same the differences are so fascinating to me. And its more than just size, there are so many variable that are possible with each man. The hardness level. Are they thin but long. Are they thick but short. Are they a little softer at the base so they hang down. Large head on a thinner shaft or an average head on a thick shaft. So many variables!
Like I said, my favorite toy.
And that may be why I enjoy oral sex so much as I get to take longer to play with my favorite toy. (see previous blog on BJ’s!) But don’t get me wrong. As much as I love oral sex, I adore intercourse. Because that wonderful toy is deeply more satisfying on a different level than so many things. Man-made toys can be fun and can even make the act of intercourse transcendent, but they cannot replace it. For me at least. The same can be said for manual and oral stimulation. Wonderful orgasms, yes. And I love that you love to do that and feel my pleasure at what you’re doing. But it IS foreplay and not enough to leave me blissfully sated.
It’s the wonderful combination of hitting that “spot” knowing you’re getting pleasure from it also. And when we take that pleasure up to the primal level and there is no “making love” to it, the orgasms satisfy me emotionally in a way all the other ones don’t quite do. (and trust me there are always lots of them!)
But back to the Penis. Men are only concerned with size if they think you are. If they believe maybe what God gave them they won’t satisfy you. And that, ladies, is our fault. Porn leads them to believe only big, hard cocks will do. So they feel if they are orally gifted enough to give you orgasms there you ‘ll be satisfied with whatever orgasms they give you with intercourse. Although most men enjoy oral as much as I do because they are “givers” themselves. And you can tell the difference and always want these types of men (see previous blog on Generous Lover, lol) [I can’t believe I’ve gotten to the point where I’m referring to “previous blogs”!] And so many women are so shy about sex and orgasms that the male is left wondering and hoping she’ll be happy with what he’s endowed with.
Ah.. but size isn’t always a good thing. And the most delicious cock can be disappointing in the hands of someone just a little too inexperienced. Plus it can be misleading. Several times I’ve had wonderful intercourse with someone long and average and with men who are average/average. Sometimes its a matter of the perfect position for that size. And sometimes I’ve been amazed at how someone so large could feel like he’s not even there because with the condom on (always.. folks!) his friction was internal between him and the condom and not me and the condom! Again, easily fixable with a different position.
So my ladies do not stay quiet and shy during sex. If he’s not doing it for you he may not have found the best position that works his size. And since no male has ever been very telepathic its up to us to suggest a change. Trust me in this.. he’ll appreciate any help that allows him to please you.
Usually the only disappointing erection is the one that disappears too quickly in intercourse. Although I did have one encounter (before I was married… therefore before the site so stop panicking guys!) where the gentleman was truly too small to satisfy me. I actually woke up hornier than when we’d started and as I caressed the naked male next to me this little voice in my head said, “And just WHY are you doing that? Do you think you’ll leave MORE satisfied!) Needless to say, I stopped!
The point being that Passion isn’t about size. And that EVERY luscious, hard cock is wonderful in his own way. Plus for me its often about how much you lust me and how primal I can make you because then I’ll get that emotionally satisfying orgasm that wild passion with my favorite toy can give me.
Damn… is it Friday yet! Oh wait.. hee hee.. it is! Yippee!