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Finding the Positive

So I went to the bank today to close out the joint account that my soon-to-be-Ex and I shared.  And found it already closed.

Which was frankly amusing.

It had been mostly ignored by both of us for the last 5 months.  (It only had $80 in it.)  I had the checks and since Chase (assholes!) had linked this account with his business account he got the bank statements.  Which was an irritant to my OCD compulsion to balance checking accounts with bank statements until I started online banking.  Now I do without.  (Yay, save a tree!)

A month ago I went to see how difficult it would be to get this account, that neither of us use, separated from his business account so mail would stop going to his address.  And found out I couldn’t do that but could close  it.  I also found out it had $80 in  it instead of the $20 I thought it did.   So I chose at that moment NOT to close the account because I thought I should double check whether or not there was an outstanding check I should worry about.

Once home I saw there were no outstanding checks so I transferred  a portion to my son Luke’s savings account and some to my son Evan’s account.  And I was going to use the balance of $28 to open an account for our son Conor’s account.  But life goes on and delay after delay, I finally got to this today.

Only to find it closed already.

Frankly, I found it more amusing than angering.  Obviously the Ex had received the bank statement and saw two debits from the account and decided he was going to stop me from getting the rest of “his share”.    And since he doesn’t speak to me NOR consult me if he’s got a question on something he had no idea the money went to our children.  Nor that he just took the $28 I was going to use to start our last son’s savings.

It’s just proof of his passive/aggressive personality, and I refuse to sink to that level.   So I ponied up the money to start Conor’s savings out of my own funds and shrugged it off, laughing.

My Ex has so much repressed anger at me, which makes me want to ask, “What?! You’re not happy living with your new girlfriend?!”

Best of all.. in talking to the customer service guy at Chase and telling him how enthusiastic my oldest is in getting a job when he turns 14, I complained about how difficult it might be finding him something in this economy.  And he pointed me to a group in Glendale that helps kids do exactly that!

I just smile.  One account closes and another account opens.  Employing my son when he’s 14 is soooo worth $28!

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Bands vs. House Music

I have a great respect for bands.  Music has always spoken to me and as I’ve changed through the years the type of music I listen to changes also.  Since I live in Los Angeles, I do a lot of driving.  Since I’m 2 years from 50 I listen to the radio when I drive.  And since I’m something of a Cougar I listen to the new music: NOT talk radio, NPR, or revel in the past listening to songs I’ve heard a million times on Jack FM!

Amusingly enough, these days I enjoy going to see live music.  In the past, concerts were fun but not necessary to my happiness.   Because I enjoyed my comfort waaay too much and standing for 2-3 hrs wasn’t that appealing no matter how much I loved the music.

My brother practically had to drag me to the 3 concerts I attended in my 20’s.  Oingo Boingo at Universal Amphitheater, 10,000 Maniacs in Irvine and B52’s, again at Universal Amphitheater.  All concerts I thoroughly loved and enjoyed every minute of, but that fact never managed to change my lazy attitude.

Radio was good enough for me.  And dancing at the bars to the hits songs.

Until recently.

Within the last 3 years I’ve increased my exercise 100% (i.e. I actually GO to the gym now.  Hey!  That’s a 100% change!) And I’ve re-directed my life.  These two things have given  me the energy to enjoy going to concerts and hearing live music.

Especially bands.

Now I’ve been to a club or bar recently and heard what’s called House Music and I’ll admit its fun to dance to.  But its not the same as a concert and not as good, in my opinion.  Mostly due to the fact they change the song when they turn it into House Music.  The DJ speeds it or slows it to hit a certain beat to segway smoothly into another song.  And they often don’t play songs in their entirety.  Don’t even get me started on the scratching shit.

When I hear songs on the radio I often want to dance to them.  Its frustrating when I can’t find a club or bar that’s playing my songs and even MORE so when I’m at the club and hear a song I love only to have it turned into LESS!

A band has to have a lyricist who is also able to write music.  A band has to play instruments, sometimes several different ones.  A band has to also know how to perform, work together AND manage/market their careers.  It irks me when people tout Michael Jackson.  Did he ever play an instrument?  How many of his songs were written by him or just purchased from Prince or someone else.  He could sing and dance.  Which a lot of people can do, as proven by American Idol!

A band does so much more.  They write the original from their heart and their experience.

Coachella released their line up for 2011 and it  looks fabulous (more on that later).  But I kept hearing complaints that this House DJ isn’t on the line up or this or that singer wasn’t going to play.  And I’m thinking… its about BANDS!

And thousands agreed with me as Coachella sold out in a week.  51,000 tickets sold in a WEEK!  And people thought I was nuts buying layaway tix in December before the lineup was even released!  Next year I’m going to buy 1 extra ticket and sell it on ebay, juuuust in case this happens next year.  Tickets are going for almost double their price on ebay right now, months before the event!

The draw of music in an outdoor festival beats House music any day.  I don’t care WHO’s “mixing”.

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