Author Archives: Heather

A little extra “effort”

So I was chatting with a young cub the other night.  A man who wanted to enjoy another evening with me.  I was explaining my reluctance and he was explaining his reasoning.  We eventually agreed to disagree on the subject … Continue reading

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Age Appropriate

One piece of advice my mother gave me that has truly served me well, was… They’re old enough when they can do it themselves. She meant this to caution me from putting a child up on a jungle gym before … Continue reading

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Prayer

Some people pray, some people meditate, some people beg or curse.. but we all talk to God/Fate in one way, or at one time or another.  What’s amusing to me is when I “pray” I do it the way I … Continue reading

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Gotta set Limits

Those who know me and read the title of this blog are saying, “WHAT!  YOU!  Setting Limits!” Ha!  Just when everyone thought I had absolutely NO boundaries, I’m drawing one. I refuse to Twitter. I’ve actually managed to hit my … Continue reading

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Desert and Meat

When it comes to dating we all know men and women think differently about it.  I was comparing the differences with a friend online chatting and came up with this analogy. Guys like desert.. the sweet indulgence of the instant … Continue reading

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What a week!

My first week without the kids and its been anything but normal!  The ex finally picked them up by 6p on Sunday after moving out the 9th of Sept.  (that drama is a whole other blog!) I left the very … Continue reading

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Conversations with Grandma

I don’t know if its just kids, my kids or my sense of humor, but the conversations people have with my kids are sometimes just too, too funny! Luke:      (13 yrs old)    Grandma, why is there a sponge in … Continue reading

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The G-Shot

Watched one of my favorite shows called Wired For Sex on an obscure little indy channel on my cable station called Current.  They’ve had episodes like, monogamy, poly-amorous.. etc. This episode was on plastic and enhancement.  Oh but it went … Continue reading

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Couples Therapy

One of the fun parts about meeting men is some just stay your friends, even if the sex doesn’t work out or if they meet a girl and go monogamous.  I  have one such friend, (Jimmy!)  and we talk a … Continue reading

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It takes a village

The other day my kids were in the car with me.  The youngest two were in the back seat playing a DS game.  Conor, the 8 yr old, was doing the playing.  Evan, the 11 year old, was watching/coaching. Evan:   … Continue reading

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