Monthly Archives: September 2010

Desert and Meat

When it comes to dating we all know men and women think differently about it.  I was comparing the differences with a friend online chatting and came up with this analogy. Guys like desert.. the sweet indulgence of the instant … Continue reading

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What a week!

My first week without the kids and its been anything but normal!  The ex finally picked them up by 6p on Sunday after moving out the 9th of Sept.  (that drama is a whole other blog!) I left the very … Continue reading

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Conversations with Grandma

I don’t know if its just kids, my kids or my sense of humor, but the conversations people have with my kids are sometimes just too, too funny! Luke:      (13 yrs old)    Grandma, why is there a sponge in … Continue reading

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The G-Shot

Watched one of my favorite shows called Wired For Sex on an obscure little indy channel on my cable station called Current.  They’ve had episodes like, monogamy, poly-amorous.. etc. This episode was on plastic and enhancement.  Oh but it went … Continue reading

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Couples Therapy

One of the fun parts about meeting men is some just stay your friends, even if the sex doesn’t work out or if they meet a girl and go monogamous.  I  have one such friend, (Jimmy!)  and we talk a … Continue reading

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It takes a village

The other day my kids were in the car with me.  The youngest two were in the back seat playing a DS game.  Conor, the 8 yr old, was doing the playing.  Evan, the 11 year old, was watching/coaching. Evan:   … Continue reading

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Updating

I go away for 3 days and when I come back, 119 comments on the blog.  One would think.. WOW, Heather, people are reading you’re blog. Wrong! Spammers are spamming my blog!  There was maybe 1 real comment and 3 … Continue reading

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The Work Week

When my kids go back to school for the fall (although with this heat it hardly qualifies for that word!  I love L.A.)  and also when they get out for Christmas and the summer, I tend to re-evaluate my time … Continue reading

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Do’s & Don’ts of FWB

I saw this little bit in stop motion on a t.v. show.. it was hilarious!  And so true! A FWB relationship needs to be treated like you’re a temp at a temp job. DO… make sure the person hiring you … Continue reading

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Goals… and Visualization

Okay, I’ve been trying to integrate meditation (funny I accidentally spelled that medication… is my subconscious trying to tell me something?!) and visualization into my daily life. I’ve been reading the blog of Stephen Barnes and I put my goals … Continue reading

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