Last weekend I got to spend 24 hours with Sex God in his home. Ok… in his tiny efficiency apartment with his 3 free flying birds, two of which are a mated pair of cocketiels who’ve laid eggs (7 now!) that seem fertile.
I know that may sound horrible, but it wasn’t. Cuz I got to spend it alone with my lovely, lovely Sex God. As of today, we have been fucking for 2 years. And enjoying the gradual explorations of all our hedonstic desires. We are incredibly compatible in bed and out.
People have asked what IS it that he does that makes him my Sex God. Well, its a lot of little things.. but two of them stand out. One… the way he moans, grunts & gasps his pleasure when I do things to him. Drives my passion up incredibly. Two… most of the time when he’s fucking me its for my pleasure. He’s loving every stroke, of course, but his focus is on pleasing me. Now MOST of my lovers do this and its why they are my lovers! haha. But what my Sex God does differently is the 10 minutes of fucking me he does at the end. Where its about HIS pleasure. Where his focus is inward. I get off on that level of pleasure. Cuz it takes a bit to get him to cum.
And outside the bedroom, our relationship is halfway between FWB & BF/GF… or maybe it just transcends the two onto a new plane. Each fulfills the deep emotional connection a person needs from a “significant other” without the drama of “where are we going” expectations. Its just an enjoyment of our company.
I gotta tell you its flat out relaxing not to obsess about “the relationship” and whether my needs are being met in it. Cuz its open on both our ends. He’s free to get what I can’t give him elsewhere, as am I. And we both do. We do not hold each other to a level of perfection similar to… “If you love me, you’ll make sure I’m always happy.” Or the “You’re focus should be primarily about me” illusion of many relationship expectations.
Which is why it feels more akin to a friendship than BF/GF. We are each others refuge from the stresses of the week on a more intimate level than your average friendship. He understands me and I understand him. Together its the freedom to be ourselves without judgment.
And to try new things 🙂
See, I went toy shopping with my Hottie the other day and got a Strapless Strapon to try on my Sex God.. who has discovered the fun of his prostrate, lol. And a few different vibrators for me. Then I went outfit shopping with my Sex God and after trying on MILLIONS! 8 outfits, went home with two I liked. And we had fun.
I put a small vibe in his ass. He put the vaginal end of the strapless strapon in MY ass. I put a vibe on my clit which also vibed his balls as he fucked me. And we went to town! Sex God didn’t last long before he came because as he said….
“I’ve got 3 different frequencies hitting me!”
Needless to say we’re taking ALL our toys with us on our Anniversary/Valentines Day/work trip to Wash DC this weekend. I’m expecting to get my baggage searched… cuz the strapless strapon when you flip it over kinda looks like a gun!